13th stepper
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Definition
A 13th stepper is a more experienced member of a 12-step recovery program who pursues newcomers for romantic or sexual relationships.
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Meaning of “13th stepper”
“13th stepper” is recovery-program slang for an established member who targets newcomers for romantic or sexual relationships. The label is especially associated with situations in which the newcomer has little or no experience in the program.
How the term is used
The term is generally critical. It describes someone perceived as pursuing newcomers rather than respecting boundaries around early recovery and the power difference created by unequal experience in the program.