Sex Dictionary A–Z

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'phobe

An informal noun meaning a homophobe: a person who dislikes homosexuals. As a suffix, “-phobe” forms nouns for a person who fears or dislikes a particular thing or type of person.

13th stepper

A 13th stepper is a more experienced member of a 12-step recovery program who pursues newcomers for romantic or sexual relationships.

175er

A German term for a homosexual during the period from 1871 to 1994 when homosexuality was illegal.

24/7

In BDSM, 24/7 describes a relationship in which the submissive is available to the dominant at all times. It can also describe a lifestyle involving wearing and using a diaper at all times.

ABDL

ABDL refers to sexual practices involving diapers or other infant-associated paraphernalia, including sexual arousal from wearing diapers or pretending to be an infant. It can also refer to a person who engages in these practices, such as an adult baby or diaper lover.

Abstinence

Abstinence is the practice of refraining from sexual intercourse, either permanently or until marriage. More broadly, it can mean self-denial or restraint from an appetite or desire.

AC/DC

AC/DC is slang for bisexual, describing someone who is attracted to more than one gender.

Access

In a sexual context, access means admission to sexual intercourse.

Action

In sexual slang, “action” refers to sexual intercourse.

Active

In sexual slang, active describes the partner who penetrates during anal sex rather than the partner who is penetrated.

Adult bookstore

An adult bookstore is a retail store that sells pornography in formats such as books and video, and often also sells sex toys.

Aesthetic attraction

Aesthetic attraction is being drawn to someone’s appearance or visual presentation without necessarily feeling romantic or sexual attraction toward them.

Afro pick

A comb with widely spaced teeth, usually used on kinky hair; an afro pick can also be worn in the hair.

Aftercare

Aftercare is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Afternoon delight

“Afternoon delight” is a sexual encounter or sexual intercourse that takes place in the afternoon.

Age gap

Age gap is the difference in age between two or more people, especially romantic or sexual partners.

Agender

Agender describes people who identify with no gender, with a lack of gender, or outside conventional gender categories.

Aggressive

In sexuality and gender vocabulary, aggressive describes a female person with a male or masculine gender presentation; butch.

Airtight

In sexual slang and pornography, “airtight” describes a person being penetrated simultaneously in the vagina, anus, and mouth.

Allo

Allo describes a person who experiences sexual and/or romantic attraction. It is used as a short form of allosexual and/or alloromantic, and can also function as a noun for someone described this way.

Allohormone

An allohormone is a hormone transferred from one individual to another through close physical contact, typically during sexual intercourse.

Allonormativity

Allonormativity is the assumption that everyone experiences sexual attraction, romantic attraction, or both. The concept describes norms that treat allosexuality and alloromanticism as universal or expected, which can marginalize people who do not experience those forms of attraction, including some asexual people.

Allosexual

Allosexual describes a person who experiences sexual attraction and is not asexual.

Allumeuse

A woman who sexually teases someone with the promise of intercourse.

Altfic

Altfic is fan fiction centered on romantic or sexual relationships between female characters, often in slash-fiction contexts.

Altocalciphilia

Altocalciphilia is a sexual fetish involving attraction to high-heeled shoes.

Ambidextrous

A humorous adjective describing a bisexual person.

Ambisextrous

A humorous, sometimes offensive adjective used to describe someone as bisexual. It can also refer to something with both masculine and feminine elements, or to an androgynous or epicene quality.

Ambisexual

Ambisexual describes a person who is bisexual or whose sexual orientation is described as ambiguous. It can function as both an adjective and a noun.

Ambisexuality

Ambisexuality is the state of being ambisexual, or an instance of ambisexual behaviour.

Ambosexous

An adjective describing something as ambisexual or hermaphroditic. The adjective is not comparative.

Amphigenous

Amphigenous is an adjective describing bisexual attraction: being attracted to both males and females.

Amy-John

Amy-John is slang for a dominant or butch lesbian.

Anal Sex

Anal sex is sexual activity involving the anus, commonly including anal penetration.

Anaphroditic

Anaphroditic describes something non-sexual or without sexual intercourse.

Androhermaphrodite

In botanical usage, androhermaphrodite describes something that produces both male and bisexual flowers.

Andromonoecy

Andromonoecy is a botanical condition in which a single plant produces both bisexual flowers and male flowers.

Anodyspareunia

Anodyspareunia is pain that occurs during receptive anal intercourse.

Antarctic 10

“Antarctic 10” is slang for a person in Antarctica considered exceptionally desirable as a romantic or sexual partner by local standards, especially because the area’s small population can make someone seem more attractive than they would elsewhere.

Anti-homosexualism

Anti-homosexualism is prejudice against homosexual, or gay, people. It is another term for homophobia.

Anti-LGBT

An adjective describing opposition to LGBT people or to their rights.

Anti-man

A derogatory Caribbean slang term for a homosexual man.

Antibi

An adjective describing something antibisexual.

Antibisexual

Antibisexual is an adjective describing opposition to bisexuality.

Antifag

A vulgar adjective describing opposition to homosexuals.

Antifaggot

A derogatory and offensive noun for someone who is opposed to homosexual people.

Antigenderism

Antigenderism is opposition to “gender ideology” or “genderism,” broad labels that can refer to transgender rights, same-sex marriage, feminism, and related ideas.

Antihomosexual

Antihomosexual describes opposition to homosexuality or refers to a person who opposes homosexuality.

Antikink

Antikink describes opposition to kinky sex. It can also refer to a person, attitude, or stance that rejects or objects to kink.

Antilesbian

Antilesbian describes an attitude, statement, policy, or other content opposed or hostile to lesbians.

Antiphysical

Antiphysical is an adjective describing homosexuality or something regarded as contrary to nature or unnatural.

Antisexual

Antisexual describes opposition to or disapproval of sexual intercourse, sex, or the expression and study of sexuality. It can also refer to something that suppresses or reduces sexual desire, such as an anaphrodisiac.

Antitrans

Antitrans is an adjective describing something antitransgender or antitranssexual.

Aphrodisia

Aphrodisia refers to sexual intercourse or a state of sexual desire.

Aromantic

Aromantic describes a person who does not experience romantic attraction.

Ascend

In incel-related slang, to ascend means to cease being an incel, generally by losing one’s virginity and having sexual intercourse or by forming a romantic relationship.

Ascension

In incel slang, ascension is the act or process of ceasing to be an incel, generally by having sex, losing one’s virginity, or entering a romantic relationship.

Asexual

Asexual describes a person who experiences little or no sexual attraction.

Ass to mouth

Ass to mouth is a sexual act in which a penis or another object is removed from someone’s anus and promptly placed in another person’s mouth. The abbreviation ATM is also used in pornography.

Assfuck

A vulgar slang term for anal sex or anal intercourse; as a verb, it means to engage in anal intercourse.

Assless

Assless is a vulgar adjective describing something devoid of sexual intercourse. It can also describe clothing that is uncovered at the rear, as in “assless chaps.”

At it

“At it” can mean occupied with an activity. In sexual usage, it means engaged in sexual intercourse or other sexual activity.

Ateuchosaurid

Ateuchosaurid is a noun for any skink in the genus Ateuchosaurus.

Athanasian wench

A slang noun for a woman portrayed as sexually promiscuous or willing to have sex with anyone.

Atherton ctenotus

Atherton ctenotus is a species of skink, Ctenotus monticola, in the genus Ctenotus.

Attached

In dating and sexual contexts, “attached” describes someone who is in a romantic or sexual relationship.

Autocopulation

Autocopulation is sexual intercourse with oneself. The noun is also used in zoological descriptions, including reports of solitary snails attempting apparent autocopulation.

Autoerotism

Autoerotism is sexual activity involving oneself, including masturbation.

Back gammon player

A slang, idiomatic term for a person—chiefly a homosexual man—who has anal sex.

Baecation

A romantic vacation taken by two people who are dating, often with one’s bae or sexual partner.

Baihe

Baihe refers to romantic or sexual relationships between women, including lesbianism. It can also describe fiction or other media centered on such relationships; in that use, it is related to yuri.

Ball

As an informal sexual slang verb, “ball” means to have sexual intercourse with someone. It can be used in both transitive and intransitive constructions.

Ball down

“Ball down” is slang for having sexual intercourse, especially sex that is intense and sweaty.

Ballet boot

A ballet boot is fetish footwear that combines the appearance of ballet pointe shoes with the raised heel of a high-heeled shoe.

Balls

A colloquial, vulgar term for the testicles; as a verb, “to balls” means to engage in sexual intercourse.

Bang like a dunny door

An Australian slang phrase meaning to have sexual intercourse very frequently or very vigorously.

Bang maid

A derogatory slang term for a woman whose role in a relationship is reduced to providing sex and doing housework.

Bangbus

Bangbus is slang for a motorbus associated with solicited, sexually explicit activity, particularly in pornography.

Banging

“Banging” is slang for a session of sexual intercourse. As an adjective, it can also describe someone or something as attractive or sexually appealing.

Banjee boy

A banjee boy is a young gay Latino or African American man associated with stereotypically masculine urban fashion.

Bardash

A homosexual boy or young man kept for sexual use; a catamite.

Batty boy

A derogatory slang term for a homosexual man, associated with Canada, the Caribbean, Jamaica, and the UK.

Batty man

A derogatory Caribbean and Jamaican slang term for a homosexual man.

Baudin's skink

Baudin's skink is a skink species, Emoia baudini, native to New Guinea, Maluku, and Sulawesi.

BDSM

BDSM is an umbrella term for consensual practices and relationship dynamics involving bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and/or sadism and masochism.

BDSMer

A BDSMer is someone who participates in BDSM. The informal noun can refer to people involved in BDSM activities or, in some contexts, those who incorporate BDSM into their lifestyle.

Be into

“Be into” means to enjoy or like something sexually, including as a fetish.

Beard

In LGBTQ+ slang, a beard is a woman who accompanies a gay man, or a man who accompanies a lesbian, to create the impression that the person is heterosexual. The word can also refer more broadly to a fake companion or intermediary used for that purpose.

Beardom

Beardom is the state or quality of being a bear in gay male subculture.

Beast

As a slang verb, “beast” means to engage in sexual intercourse, particularly in an illicit context.

Beat

“Beat” is a colloquial verb meaning to have sexual intercourse. It is used in some varieties of English, including US, UK, Australian, Southern US, and Multicultural London English.

Beef injection

“Beef injection” is vulgar slang for penetrative sexual intercourse.

Beige Flag

Beige Flag is a term used in modern dating. Its exact meaning depends on the behavior, stage, or expectation being described and on the context in which people use the term.

Bendy-boy

A UK slang term for a homosexual man, marked as derogatory.

Bent

A derogatory slang adjective for someone who is homosexual.

Bent as a nine-bob note

UK slang describing someone or something as ostentatiously homosexual. It can also mean extremely dishonest or criminally minded.

Bent as a two bob

A slang phrase meaning homosexual or bent; it can also mean not lawful.

Berdache

An offensive term historically used for a Native American person whose gender identity or social role was not exclusively associated with their biological sex. It has also been used to refer broadly to a transgender person.

Bi-asexual

Bi-asexual describes someone who experiences romantic or aesthetic attraction to people of either sex but does not experience sexual attraction to others.

Bi-curious

Bi-curious describes someone exploring or considering attraction, relationships, or sexual experiences with both men and women, particularly while questioning whether they may be bisexual.

Bi-cycle

An informal term for a recurring shift in a bisexual person’s level of attraction to different genders over time.

Bi-dyke

A vulgar noun for a bisexual woman or nonbinary person who prefers female or femme partners to male or masc partners.

Bi-erasure

Bi-erasure is the tendency to ignore, deny, or minimize the existence of bisexual people or bisexuality.

Bi4Bi

Bi4Bi is an adjective describing something related to or focused on relationships between bisexual or multisexual people.

Bibliophilia

Bibliophilia is a sexual attraction to books, including sexual intercourse involving books. In general usage, it can also mean a love of books.

Bicentric

Bicentric describes a perspective, framework, or idea that has a bisexual bias or basis.

Bicentrism

Bicentrism is the state or quality of being bicentric in a bisexual sense: having a bisexual bias or basis.

Bicon

An informal term for an iconic bisexual celebrity or fictional character, or for a celebrity or fictional character greatly admired by bisexual people, whether or not that person or character is bisexual.

Bidar

Bidar is slang for the perceived ability to detect whether someone is bisexual by observing them. The idea is informal and not always accurate: some bisexual people may not be recognizable through bidar, while someone may appear bisexual without identifying as bisexual.

Bierotic

Relating to bisexual love or desire.

Bigender

Bigender describes a person who identifies with two genders.

Bihet

Bihet is a derogatory term for a bisexual person who more often engages in heterosexual relationships.

Bikisser

Bikisser is an internet neologism for a cute bisexual or gay, effeminate white cat depicted in a specific furry art style. It can also refer to a person attracted to both men and women.

Binegative

Binegative describes attitudes, beliefs, language, or behavior that are negative toward bisexuality or bisexual people. It is also used to mean biphobic.

Binegativity

Binegativity is negativity, prejudice, or hostility directed at bisexual people. It is also called biphobia.

Biness

Biness is the state or quality of being bisexual. The noun is uncommon and informal.

Binormativity

Binormativity is the adoption or enforcement of limiting, often heterosexist-like values, beliefs, and norms within the bisexual community.

Biphobe

A biphobe is a person who has a negative perception of bisexual people or bisexuality.

Biphobia

Biphobia is antipathy toward bisexual people.

Bisexous

Bisexous is an adjective describing something bisexual or hermaphroditic—having both male and female parts or functions.

Bisexual

Bisexual describes a person with the capacity for romantic, emotional, and/or physical attraction to people of more than one gender.

Bisexual marriage

Marriage between two people in which one or both partners are bisexual.

Bisexualist

Bisexualist is a noun referring to a bisexual person.

Bisexuality

Bisexuality is the state of being sexually attracted to members of either sex, involving both heterosexual and homosexual attraction.

Bisexualize

Bisexualize is a transitive verb meaning to render someone or something bisexual.

Bisexualized

Bisexualized is the simple past and past participle form of the verb bisexualize.

Bisexualizes

“Bisexualizes” is the third-person singular simple present indicative form of the verb “bisexualize.”

Bisexualizing

Bisexualizing is the present participle and gerund form of the verb “bisexualize.”

Bisexualness

Bisexualness is the state or quality of being bisexual; it is another word for bisexuality.

Bisexuous

Bisexuous is an adjective describing something bisexual or hermaphroditic, particularly in a scientific context.

Bisexy

Bisexy is slang describing someone or something as appealingly bisexual, or as sexually attractive to both men and women.

Bitch

A derogatory sexual slang term for a submissive person who does what others want; in prison slang, a man forced or coerced into a homosexual relationship. It can also be an offensive insult for a promiscuous woman, or a vulgar term for a woman generally.

Bitchfuck

A highly vulgar, derogatory slang term for having sexual intercourse with a “bitch”; as a verb, it can mean to have intercourse with someone in a vigorous or violent manner.

Bitchsuit

A bitchsuit is a BDSM bondage suit that restrains the wearer’s arms and legs, folding them to a similar length and forcing the body into a crawling, quadruped-like position. As a vulgar slang verb, “to bitchsuit” means to wear one.

Black velvet

Australian slang for sexual intercourse with an Aboriginal Australian woman; it can also refer to Aboriginal Australian women in that sexualized context. The phrase also names a cocktail made with stout and champagne or, sometimes, a less expensive sparkling white wine.

Blacked

A derogatory slang term describing a non-Black person who has had sexual intercourse with a Black man.

Blackmail

Blackmail is the use of compromising information to extort money, favors, or another response through threats of exposure. In BDSM, it can also refer to roleplay in which a submissive shares information that a dominant may exploit within the scene.

Blade

Blade is informal U.S. slang for a homosexual person, usually a man.

Bleeder

Bleeder is a term for a person who menstruates, used in the context of transgender inclusivity.

Bloodplay

Bloodplay is a BDSM or sexual practice in which a participant is deliberately cut so that blood is released.

Blue bean

“Blue bean” is sexual slang for discomfort or swelling in the clitoris after prolonged sexual arousal without orgasm.

Blue-ball

Blue-ball is a vulgar slang verb meaning to leave someone—usually a man—sexually frustrated by denying them an orgasm or abruptly ending sexual contact. It can also mean teasing or leading someone on by promising something desirable without delivering it.

Blue-balled

Sexually frustrated, especially after experiencing sexual arousal without reaching orgasm.

Blue-tongue lizard

A blue-tongue lizard is any of several species of Australian skinks in the genus Tiliqua.

Blue-tongued skink

A blue-tongued skink is any of several species of Australian skink in the genus Tiliqua. This is a zoological term, not a sexuality, dating, relationship, or BDSM term.

Bobtail skink

Bobtail skink is a common name for Tiliqua rugosa, an Australian blue-tongued skink.

Bodice ripper

A bodice ripper is an informal term for a romantic novel, usually set in the past, that contains frank depictions of sexual activity, often involving the seduction of a female protagonist. The term can also describe a film or television program with similar sexual content.

Boff

Boff is slang for having sexual intercourse with someone.

Boffing

Boffing is slang for sexual intercourse. It can also refer to reenacted fighting with foam weapons, but the sexual meaning is the relevant sense in sexuality and dating contexts.

Boi

In BDSM and sexual slang, a boi is a male bottom or submissive partner whose role is defined by submission to a dominant top, not by being young.

Boink

Boink is informal slang for having sexual intercourse. As a verb, it means to have sex with someone; as a noun, it means sexual intercourse.

Boinky

Boinky is informal sexual slang for sexual intercourse.

Bold film

A commercial film with pornographic or erotic content; also used to mean softcore pornography, particularly in Philippine usage.

Bold movie

In Philippine usage, a bold movie is a commercial film containing erotic or pornographic material, generally referring to softcore pornography.

Bondage

Bondage is a kink or fetish-related term used to describe an interest, fantasy, activity, sensation, object, or style of erotic play. Individual interests and boundaries can vary widely.

Bondagewear

Bondagewear is clothing designed to be worn during sexual bondage activities.

Boning

Boning is vulgar slang for an act of sexual intercourse.

Bonk

“Bonk” is informal UK sexual slang meaning to have sexual intercourse with someone. It is used as a verb.

Bonk ban

A prohibition against sexual or intimate relationships between parliamentarians and staffers, especially in Australian political usage.

Bonking

Bonking is slang for having sexual intercourse, or a session of sexual intercourse.

Bonky bonky

“Bonky bonky” is slang for sexual intercourse.

Boogy

Boogy is a slang term for sexual intercourse.

Bootlicking

Bootlicking is a BDSM activity involving licking someone’s boot. The word can also describe obsequious or servile behavior in a figurative sense.

Booty

Booty is slang for sexual intercourse or for the buttocks. The word is vulgar in these sexual senses.

Bottom

Bottom is a role-related term used in sexual, kink, or BDSM contexts. Role labels can describe preferences or dynamics but do not define a person's complete interests or boundaries.

Bottom drop

Bottom drop is a low or distressed emotional state experienced by a bottom after BDSM play, as the heightened feelings of a scene wear off.

Bounce

In informal sexual slang, “bounce” means to have sexual intercourse.

Boy crazy

An informal adjective describing strong romantic or sexual attraction to boys in one’s age group.

Boy cunt

A vulgar sexual slang term for a man’s anus, usually referring to the passive participant in gay sex. It can also refer to the vagina or vulva of a trans man.

Boy pussy

Vulgar sexual slang for a man’s anus, typically referring to the receptive partner in gay sex. It can also refer to the vagina or vulva of a transgender man or another transmasculine person.

Boyfucker

A derogatory, vulgar slang term for a homosexual male, usually used as an insult addressed to a man.

Boyremove

Boyremove is a transitive sexual slang verb meaning to remove the male socialization of a trans woman, or “boymoder,” through domination during sexual intercourse.

Boys' love

Boys' love (BL) is a genre of fictional media originating in Japan that focuses on homoerotic relationships between male characters. It is also known as yaoi.

Boyslash

Boyslash is slash fiction focused on romantic and/or sexual relationships between male characters.

Boywife

A slang term for a young man who takes on a homemaking role and enjoys caring for a more dominant partner, often as the submissive partner in the relationship.

Brat

Brat is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Brat Tamer

Brat Tamer is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Breadcrumbing

Breadcrumbing is giving someone occasional signs of attention or interest that keep them engaged without meaningfully pursuing an ongoing relationship.

Break up

“Break up” means to end a romantic or sexual relationship. It can describe two people ending the relationship with each other or one person ending it with a partner.

Breath control

Breath control is a BDSM and sexual practice involving erotic asphyxiation, in which one person controls another person’s breathing.

Breathplay

Breathplay is a sexual practice involving the intentional deprivation of oxygen to the brain, often through choking. It is associated with BDSM and is considered a form of edgeplay.

Breeder

A slang term for a heterosexual person whose sexual intercourse can result in reproduction. It can also refer, derogatorily, to someone who has or can have children, or who is focused on raising their own children.

Brighton pier

A Cockney slang adjective meaning queer or homosexual.

Brojob

Brojob is humorous slang for oral sex performed by one straight or bisexual man on another, usually between friends.

Brokeback

A slang adjective describing something homoerotic, homosexual, or gay.

Brokeback marriage

A brokeback marriage is an opposite-sex marriage in which one partner, typically the man, is secretly homosexual.

Bromance

A close, non-sexual relationship between two or more men.

Bromosexual

Bromosexual describes a close, nonsexual relationship between two men, usually a gay man and a straight man. As a noun, it refers to a man who has one or more such friendships.

Brotherfucker

A vulgar term for a homosexual man; it can also refer literally to someone who has incestuous sex with their brother. In some uses, it functions as a generic term of abuse.

Buckle

Buckle refers to a distortion: a bend, bulge, or kink.

Buckling

Buckling is bending, kinking, or bulging under pressure or stress, with a possible risk of collapse.

Buddyslash

Buddyslash is slash fan fiction centered on a romantic or sexual relationship between two friends.

Bulbus glandis

Bulbus glandis is an erectile tissue structure on the penis of canids and some pinnipeds. During intercourse, it swells and locks inside the female.

Bulldag

A slang verb meaning to have lesbian sex.

Bulldyking

Bulldyking is a term for lesbian sex, sometimes specifically tribadism, particularly in reference to Black women. It can also be used adjectivally.

Bum chum

A derogatory and offensive British slang term for a gay man or a male gay partner.

Bumboy

A derogatory, vulgar UK slang noun for a gay man.

Bumder

A derogatory UK slang term for a gay man.

Bumfoolery

Bumfoolery is slang for messing about, particularly in a homosexual or sexually suggestive way.

Bump uglies

“Bump uglies” is vulgar slang for having sexual intercourse.

Burn coal

“Burn coal” is derogatory, offensive slang for a non-Black person—usually a woman—who seeks sexual relationships with Black people, usually men.

Burn the coal, pay the toll

An offensive internet phrase used to admonish or deride white women for having sexual relationships with Black men.

Burner

In sexual slang, “burner” is an abbreviation of “coal burner”: a non-Black person, usually a woman, who has sexual relationships with Black people, usually men.

Burusera

Burusera is a fetish market or shop dealing in used girls’ underwear and school uniforms, typically bought and sold for sexual fetish purposes.

Bust out

“Bust out” is informal sexual slang meaning to have sex with a woman or bring a woman to orgasm.

Butch

Butch is a masculine identity or presentation used especially in lesbian and queer communities.

Butt rider

A derogatory slang term for a homosexual man.

Buttock mail

Buttock mail is a historical Scottish term for a fine imposed by the church for sexual intercourse outside marriage.

Californication

Californication is a humorous, derogatory noun for sexual intercourse in California or in a Californian style.

Canoodle

To canoodle is to caress, cuddle, or fondle someone; the verb can also mean to have sexual intercourse or make love. As a noun, a canoodle is a caress, cuddle, or hug.

Capnolagnia

Capnolagnia is a sexual fetish involving arousal from seeing or smelling someone smoking.

Cardiophilia

Cardiophilia is a paraphilia or fetish involving sexual arousal from, or an intense fondness for, the heart or a heartbeat.

Carnal knowledge

“Carnal knowledge” is a formal or legal expression meaning sexual intercourse. It is an uncountable noun phrase.

Carry on

“Carry on” is an idiomatic phrase for having an illicit sexual or flirtatious relationship.

Cashfag

A vulgar slang term for a homosexual male who is a paypig or finsub.

Cashmaster

Cashmaster is slang for a highly paid or exceptional findom—a dominant who practices financial domination.

Catamite

A catamite is a boy or younger man involved in a homoerotic relationship with an older man. The word can also be used as a verb for engaging in such a relationship.

Catch a dick

“Catch a dick” is vulgar sexual slang meaning to receive penetrative sexual intercourse.

CC boy

A slang term for an effeminate gay man.

Cenogamy

Cenogamy is a system in which members of a community share sexual partners, with husbands and wives held in common.

CFNF

CFNF refers to lesbian sexual roleplay, usually involving humiliation play, in which one woman remains clothed while the other is naked. It can also refer to pornography depicting this scenario.

CFNM

CFNM is a sexual roleplay or fetish scenario in which a woman remains clothed while a man is naked. The term can also refer to pornography depicting this setup, which is often associated with humiliation play.

Charver

In Polari, charver can mean to have sexual intercourse, or a woman considered as a sexual partner.

Chase

To persistently pursue someone as a sexual or romantic partner.

Chastity

Chastity is a kink or fetish-related term used to describe an interest, fantasy, activity, sensation, object, or style of erotic play. Individual interests and boundaries can vary widely.

Chat up

To chat someone up is to talk to them in a friendly, charming, or flirtatious way, sometimes with the aim of starting a romantic or sexual relationship.

Cheat

To cheat on a spouse or partner is to be unfaithful by engaging in sexual or romantic conduct with someone else in violation of the relationship’s agreement or social expectations.

Chemise cagoule

A chemise cagoule is a heavy form of women’s nightwear designed with an opening for sexual intercourse while limiting other physical contact.

Chi chi man

A derogatory Jamaican and Caribbean slang term for a homosexual man.

Chinkle

Chinkle is a noun meaning a turn or kink in a rope. As a verb, it can mean to jingle or produce a continued, low-volume tinkling or chinking sound.

Christmas Island whiptail skink

The Christmas Island whiptail skink is a species of skink, Emoia nativitatis, native to Christmas Island. It is also known as the forest skink.

Chudai

Chudai is an Indian internet slang noun referring to sex, sexual intercourse, or pornography.

Circumfetishist

A circumfetishist is a person with a sexual fetish for male circumcision. The word can also be used, broadly and often derogatorily, for an advocate of routine male circumcision.

Cis

In sexuality and gender terminology, cis describes someone who is cisgender: not transgender or non-binary. It is also sometimes used as a shortened form of cissexual.

Cisbi

Cisbi is an informal term for a cisgender and bisexual person. It can also describe someone or something associated with being cisgender and bisexual.

Cisbian

A cisbian is a cisgender lesbian: a woman who is cisgender and experiences sexual attraction to women.

Cisgender

Cisgender describes a person whose gender identity corresponds with the sex they were assigned at birth.

Cistem

Cistem is a noun for a system or societal structure that privileges cisgender people and marginalizes transgender people.

Cistemic

Cistemic is an adjective for systems, structures, or conditions that privilege cisgender people and marginalize transgender people.

Classcest

Classcest is slang for a sexual or romantic relationship between classmates.

Clean fetish

A clean fetish is a non-partialist fetish that does not involve bodily fluids or waste, unpleasant smells, messy substances, or other things generally considered unclean.

Climaxer

A person who reaches orgasm. “Climaxer” can also refer to a sex toy.

Clockiness

Clockiness is the state of being clocky, meaning visibly transgender.

Closetedness

Closetedness is the state of not being open about one’s homosexuality.

Closetiness

Closetiness is the state of being reticent or secretive about one’s homosexuality.

Closety

Closety is a colloquial adjective describing someone who is not open about their homosexuality or tends to remain in the closet.

CMNF

CMNF refers to sexual roleplay in which a man remains clothed while a woman is naked, usually in a humiliation-play scenario. It can also describe pornography depicting this situation.

Coal burner

A derogatory term for a non-Black person, usually a woman, who has sexual relationships with Black people, usually men.

Coal burning

A derogatory slang term for the act or habit of a non-Black person, usually a woman, having sexual relationships with Black people, usually men.

Cock tease

A vulgar, derogatory term for a person—usually a woman—who sexually teases a man and then withdraws an implied promise of sexual intercourse.

Cock-drunk

Cock-drunk is a vulgar adjective describing someone or something rendered incoherent and libidinous by intercourse with a penis.

Cockblock

To cockblock is to interfere with or prevent someone’s attempt to pursue a romantic relationship or have sex. As a noun, cockblock can refer to the act itself or to a person who does it.

Cockblocking

Cockblocking is slang for obstructing someone’s attempt to pursue a romantic relationship or have sex. It can describe the act itself or a person who gets in the way.

Cohabit

To live together with someone, especially as romantic and sexual partners without being married.

Coit

“Coit” is a verb meaning to have sexual intercourse or copulate. It is also used as a synonym for “coition.”

Coital

Coital is an adjective meaning related to coitus, or sexual intercourse.

Coitarche

Coitarche is the term for a person’s first sexual intercourse.

Coition

Coition is sexual intercourse.

Coitophobia

Coitophobia is the fear of coitus, meaning sexual intercourse.

Coitus

Coitus is a formal term for sexual intercourse, especially intercourse involving penile–vaginal penetration.

Coitus interruptus

Coitus interruptus is sexual intercourse in which the penis is withdrawn before ejaculation. It is also known as withdrawal.

Coitus reservatus

Coitus reservatus is sexual intercourse in which the penetrating partner deliberately avoids ejaculation and remains in the plateau phase for as long as possible.

Collar

Collar is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Collared

In BDSM, collared describes a person who is committed to submitting to a particular dominant.

Collaring

Collaring is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Combo

In Australian slang, “combo” is a derogatory term for a Caucasian man who marries or has a sexual relationship with an Aboriginal woman, or who lives among Aboriginal people and adopts Aboriginal culture.

Come on strong

To come on strong means to show intense eagerness or desire, especially toward a romantic or sexual partner. It can suggest wanting someone or something too much or approaching with excessive energy.

Come out of the closet

“Come out of the closet” is an informal idiom meaning to tell other people about a sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or gender identity that was previously kept secret.

Coming Out

Coming out is the process of sharing or disclosing one's sexual orientation or gender identity to other people.

Commerce

In sexuality-related usage, commerce means sexual intercourse.

Committed

In a sexual or relationship context, committed describes an exclusive sexual relationship that is not necessarily permanent.

Commixtion

Commixtion is a noun meaning sexual intercourse, copulation, or coition.

Commodity fetish

In Marxist theory, a commodity fetish is an item whose value is understood through commodity fetishism.

Company

As a verb, “company” means to have sexual intercourse.

Compersion

Compersion is happiness or pleasure felt in response to another person’s happiness, especially a partner’s positive romantic or sexual experience with another partner.

Conceptum

Conceptum describes romantic or sexual attraction to concepts, or a relationship with a concept. It can also refer to a person who experiences that attraction or relationship.

Concubinarian

Concubinarian is an adjective for something involving or relating to a sexual relationship outside marriage. As a noun, it refers to someone who takes a concubine.

Congress

In sexual terminology, congress refers to coitus, or sexual intercourse.

Conjugal act

Sexual intercourse between two people who are married to each other.

Conjugal rights

The rights and privileges associated with marriage, including mutual love, affection, companionship, comfort, and sexual relations.

Conjugality

Conjugality is the condition of being conjugal, especially the state of marriage or a sexual relationship between spouses.

Conjunction

In sexual terminology, conjunction refers to sexual intercourse.

Conk

A conk is a hairstyle created by chemically straightening and styling kinky hair. As a verb, conk means to chemically straighten tightly curled hair; this usage is dated and primarily associated with U.S. English.

Consensual Non Monogamy

Consensual non-monogamy is an umbrella term for relationship agreements in which all partners consent to romantic, intimate, and/or sexual relationships involving more than one person.

Constellation

In polyamory, a constellation is a network of connections among people in related polyamorous relationships—for example, a person, their partner, and that partner’s partner.

Consummate

To consummate a marriage is to complete it through the spouses’ first sexual intercourse.

Consummate marriage

A marriage completed through the spouses’ first act of sexual intercourse after the wedding ceremony.

Consummation

Consummation is the first act of sexual intercourse in a relationship, especially the first such act after marriage.

Contraceptive

A contraceptive is something that prevents conception, or makes conception less likely, as a result of sexual intercourse. The word can describe a method, mechanism, or product, and it can also be used as an adjective.

Contubernal

Contubernal describes a sexual, marriage-like relationship between a male and female slave when the parties were legally unable to marry.

Conversation

In nonstandard sexual slang, “conversation” refers to sexual intercourse.

Cool-skink

Cool-skink is a noun for any of various skinks that live in relatively cool climates; it is not a sexuality, dating, relationship, LGBTQ+, kink, BDSM, or sexual-slang term.

Coorie

Coorie is a Scottish-associated lifestyle centered on hearty food and invigorating outdoor activities, popularized in the late 2010s through a book and tourism campaign. As a verb, it can also mean to snuggle or nestle.

Copulate

To engage in sexual intercourse. “Copulate” is a formal verb used to describe sexual intercourse, often in clinical, scientific, or deliberately formal writing.

Copulator

A formal noun for a person who has sexual intercourse.

Cottage

In sexual slang, a cottage is a meeting place for homosexual men. In archaic UK usage, it can also mean a public lavatory; as a verb, to cottage means to have homosexual sex in a public lavatory, or to practise cottaging.

Cottaging

Cottaging is a UK slang term for sexual activity in a public lavatory, especially sexual activity between men.

Cotton ceiling

Cotton ceiling is a phrase for a social barrier that affects whether cisgender women consider transgender women viable sexual partners.

Couple

A couple is two partners in a romantic or sexual relationship.

Coupling

Coupling is a noun for an act of sexual intercourse. In sexual contexts, it can also describe sexual pairings or encounters.

Coursecest

A sexual or romantic relationship between people who are coursemates.

Cowgirl

Cowgirl is a sexual slang term for intercourse in which the receptive partner is on top. It can also refer to the partner in that position or be used as a verb meaning to have sex in the cowgirl position.

Crack

To realize that one is transgender.

Cream in one's jeans

“Cream in one’s jeans” is a vulgar sexual idiom meaning to become wet with sexual arousal. It can also mean to ejaculate or have an orgasm while wearing trousers, and is sometimes used figuratively for being extremely excited or delighted.

Crevice skink

A crevice skink is a skink belonging to certain species in the Australian genus Egernia.

Criminal conversation

Criminal conversation is a legal term for unlawful sexual intercourse with a married person, or adultery. It also refers to a common-law tort arising from adultery, a claim abolished in many jurisdictions.

Crimp

Crimp describes hair shaped into many short, back-and-forth kinks. As a noun, it can refer to this kinked texture or style.

Cruise

In sexual and dating slang, to cruise means to move through a particular area while actively looking for a romantic partner or casual sexual partner. It can also mean to troll.

Ctenotus

Ctenotus is a noun for any skink of the genus Ctenotus.

Cuckold

Cuckold is a relationship term used to describe a structure, dynamic, feeling, or pattern between people. Its practical meaning can depend on the agreements and language used by the people involved.

Cuckolding

Cuckolding is a sexual kink involving making a man a cuckold. The word can also function as the present participle or gerund of “cuckold.”

Cum cow

A vulgar sexual term for a person whose semen is collected by their sexual partner, including in a BDSM or fetish context.

Cumbrain

A vulgar, derogatory internet insult for someone portrayed as obsessed with sex or masturbation.

Cumbrained

An internet slang adjective for being preoccupied with sex or masturbation; vulgar in tone.

Cumflation

Cumflation is a fetish-pornography genre depicting one or more participants becoming, or appearing to become, inflated with semen, typically after ejaculation inside them. It can also refer to an individual scene of this kind.

Cumhole

A vulgar sexual slang term for an orifice or person used for semen deposition, especially the anus of a gay man. It can also refer to the male urethra.

Cumpilation

A vulgar slang term for a pornographic compilation of ejaculation scenes.

Cumrag

Cumrag is a vulgar slang term for a piece of fabric used to clean semen off after masturbation. It can also be used as a derogatory insult for a person described as having sex frequently and receiving semen on or inside them.

Cumshot

A vulgar slang term for a depiction of ejaculation, especially in pornography where semen is ejaculated onto a partner’s body. It can also refer to the resulting trail or splodge of semen.

Cumsports

Cumsports is slang for sexual activity involving semen or ejaculation.

Cunnilingus

Cunnilingus is a term used in discussions of sex, sexuality, sexual behavior, pleasure, or sexual health. A precise definition depends on the specific concept and context.

Cunt

A highly vulgar term for the vulva, a woman, or a receptive sexual partner; it is also used as an offensive insult for an unpleasant person.

Cuntboy

An offensive, vulgar sexual slang term for an extremely submissive or dominated bottom, also glossed as “pussyboy.” It is also used as an offensive slang term for a transgender man who has a vulva.

Cupiosexual

Cupiosexual describes a person who desires a sexual relationship despite not experiencing sexual attraction to others. It can also be used as an adjective for something associated with this experience.

Curious

In sexuality and dating contexts, curious describes someone interested in entering a romantic or sexual relationship with a specified group. It can also be a shortened form of “bi-curious.”

Cut buddy

A cut buddy is a friend with whom someone has a casual sexual relationship, similar to a friend with benefits.

Daisy chain

A daisy chain is a network of interconnected personal relationships in which people have had different partners who were also partners with others in the same group over time.

Dalliance

A dalliance is a sexual relationship that is not serious and is often illicit. The noun can also refer to playful flirtation or amorous play.

Dark alternative

Dark alternative is an adjective for something connected with subcultures such as gothic, darkwave, industrial, fetish, or metal.

Dark culture

Dark culture is an umbrella term for subcultures including BDSM and fetish, as well as gothic, darkwave, neofolk, industrial, electro, metal, and medieval scenes.

Dart snake

A dart snake is a lance skink, a legless skink of the genus Acontias.

Dead bedroom

A “dead bedroom” is a relationship in which there is very little or no sexual intercourse. The phrase is informal and figurative.

Dekink

To dekink something is to remove its kinks, such as straightening a rope.

Dekinked

Dekinked is the past-tense and past-participle form of the verb “dekink.”

Dekinking

Dekinking is the present participle and gerund form of the verb “dekink.”

Dekinks

Dekinks is the third-person singular simple present indicative form of the verb “dekink.”

Demisexual

Demisexual describes someone who typically experiences sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional connection.

Desire

Desire is a strong romantic or sexual attraction toward someone or something. As a verb, to desire means to want someone or something emotionally or sexually.

Desister

A desister is a person who ceases to identify as transgender and did not undergo a physical sex change operation.

Desperado

Desperado is a colloquial noun for a person who is desperately in love or desperate for a romantic or sexual relationship.

Devil's threesome

A slang term for sexual intercourse involving one woman and two men.

Diaper lover

A diaper lover is a person who wears diapers for pleasure or as part of a fetish, rather than because diapers are medically or practically necessary.

Diaper stuffing

A kink involving the idea of placing or stuffing a person inside another person’s diaper, including in role-play and artwork. The phrase can also refer to putting diaper inserts into a cloth diaper or, in sexual foodplay, placing soft or mushy food in a wearer’s diaper.

Diaperism

Diaperism is a kink or fetish involving sexual arousal from diapers, particularly wearing them. It is also described as diaper fetishism and may involve diaper play or ABDL.

Diaperslut

A vulgar term for a person—especially a submissive person—with a sexual interest in diapers; a diaper lover.

Dick

A vulgar sexual slang term referring to the penis or to sexual intercourse with a man. It can also mean a contemptible person or, as a verb, to mistreat or take advantage of someone.

Dickbait

Vulgar slang for persuasion or blackmail used to manipulate or attract a man, especially a homosexual man.

Dickfucker

A highly offensive, vulgar derogatory term for a homosexual man.

Dicklicker

A vulgar, derogatory noun for a person who performs fellatio. It has also been used offensively to refer to a gay man, and more broadly as an insult meaning a contemptible person.

Dig out

“Dig out” is slang for having penetrative sexual intercourse with someone.

DL

DL usually means “down low” in dating and hookup contexts. It commonly describes keeping sexual activity, attraction or encounters private or undisclosed, although the exact implication depends on context.

Dock

In sexual slang, to dock means for one participant to insert the tip of their penis into the foreskin of another participant. The act is called docking.

Dogfucker

A vulgar, derogatory term for a person who has sexual intercourse with dogs; it can also be used as an offensive insult, including toward a zoophile or, inaccurately, a member of the furry fandom.

Dogging

Dogging is the practice of having sexual intercourse in a public place, especially a park, while deliberately taking the chance of being watched.

Doggy style

A slang term for sexual intercourse in which one partner is on all fours and the other penetrates from behind. It can also refer to the position itself or to having sex in that position.

Doggystyle

Doggystyle is a slang term for having sex in the doggy-style position, especially referring to the active or insertive partner.

Doll

In sexuality and gender slang, “doll” can refer to an attractive young woman or to a transgender woman or transfeminine person. It is also used especially for a trans or transfeminine person with a highly sexual and feminine personal style.

Domination

In BDSM and sexual contexts, domination is a fetish involving control, power, and discipline directed toward a sexual partner. It can sometimes include topping or sadism.

Dominator

In BDSM and sexual contexts, a dominator is a male dominant: a man who takes the dominant role.

Dommy

In BDSM and sexual slang, “dommy” describes someone or something that appears dominant, commanding, or strongly focused on taking control.

Don't ask, don't tell

“Don’t ask, don’t tell” refers primarily to a U.S. military policy in effect from 1993 to 2011. It barred openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual people from serving while also prohibiting discrimination against gay, lesbian, or bisexual service members who remained closeted.

Don't ask, don't tell, don't harass, don't pursue

“Don’t ask, don’t tell, don’t harass, don’t pursue” is the full name of the U.S. military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy concerning the service of homosexuals in the military, as defined in 10 U.S.C. § 654.

Doppelbanger

A humorous slang term for a romantic or sexual partner who strongly resembles oneself.

Dorian

Dorian describes homosexuality involving a man who prefers men exclusively as romantic or sexual partners. It is presented as the male counterpart of lesbian and can also appear in the phrase “Dorian love” for male-male love.

Drab

Drab is slang for a transgender or non-binary person presenting as the gender associated with their sex assigned at birth, such as a trans woman presenting as a man.

Drill

A vulgar slang verb meaning to have sexual intercourse with or sexually penetrate someone.

Drone

In dronification kink, a drone is a person portrayed as mindless and obedient to a dominant, with a detached, robotic identity and an anonymous appearance typically associated with a latex suit and gas mask.

Dry sex

Dry sex is sexual intercourse without vaginal lubrication. The term can also refer to nonpenetrative sex.

Dry spell

A dry spell is a period of time without sexual intercourse.

Dry-hump

To simulate sexual intercourse without direct genital-to-genital contact, usually through clothing or by rubbing the genitals against another surface.

Dry-tool

Dry-tool is vulgar slang for having sexual intercourse without lubricant.

DTF

DTF means “down to fuck.” It is blunt dating and hookup slang used to express openness to sexual activity, often without implying a desire for a romantic relationship.

DTR

DTR is a term used in modern dating. Its exact meaning depends on the behavior, stage, or expectation being described and on the context in which people use the term.

Dung puncher

A derogatory, offensive slang term for a homosexual man.

Dungeon monitor

A dungeon monitor is a person responsible for supervising BDSM activities at a play party or BDSM club.

Dyke

Dyke is a slang term for a lesbian, particularly one associated with masculine or butch traits or behavior. It is marked as offensive and derogatory, although the supplied evidence does not establish how any particular speaker intends it.

Dyke tyke

A derogatory slang term for a man who enjoys the company of lesbians.

Dykedar

Dykedar is the supposed ability to tell whether someone is a lesbian by observing them.

Dyspareunist

A dyspareunist is an individual, especially a woman, for whom sexual intercourse is painful or difficult.

Eastern crevice skink

The eastern crevice skink is Egernia mcpheei, a species of large skink native to eastern Australia.

Ecosexual

An ecosexual is a person whose environmental values extend into their romantic or sexual life, including their choice of partner. The word can also describe someone who feels or performs sexual attraction to nature or the Earth.

Edge Play

Edge Play is a kink or fetish-related term used to describe an interest, fantasy, activity, sensation, object, or style of erotic play. Individual interests and boundaries can vary widely.

Effeminist

A member of a gay male movement that opposed prejudice against effeminate behavior.

Electroplay

Electroplay is sexual activity involving electric shock, associated with BDSM and sexual lifestyles.

Emo skink

A skink belonging to the genus Emoia.

Enbian

Enbian describes a non-binary person who is sexually or romantically attracted to other non-binary people. It can also refer to attraction or relationships between non-binary people.

Endosomatophilia

Endosomatophilia is a subgenre of vorarephilia involving a character being swallowed alive and whole, then safely held inside another character for a period of time. It generally overlaps with fetishism involving internal anatomy.

Enemyslash

Enemyslash is slash fan fiction centered on a romantic or sexual relationship between characters who are adversaries.

ENF

ENF is a form of sexual roleplay or pornography centered on a woman being accidentally, unintentionally, unwillingly, or reluctantly naked and feeling embarrassed, ashamed, or humiliated. It can also refer, rarely, to the woman in that situation.

Enjo kosai

Enjo kosai is a form of compensated dating in which young girls in Japan or Hong Kong provide companionship or sex to older men in exchange for money or luxury goods.

Enjoy

As a sexual verb, “enjoy” means to have sexual intercourse with someone.

Eproctophile

A person with a sexual fetish involving flatulence; someone who has eproctophilia.

Erection

An erection is the enlargement and firming of erectile tissue during arousal or other stimulation.

Erogenous Zone

An erogenous zone is an area of the body that can produce sexual pleasure when touched or stimulated.

Erotic target location error

A hypothesized explanation for some paraphilias in which a person’s primary sexual preference becomes focused in an unusual way—for example, on a nonsexual body part or on traits desired in the self rather than in a partner.

Eroticism

Eroticism is sexual interest, attraction, or arousal, including a particular erotic preference or fetish.

Eskimo brothers

“Eskimo brothers” is slang for men who have had sexual intercourse with the same woman.

Eskimo sisters

“Eskimo sisters” is slang for women who have had sexual intercourse with the same man.

Eternity collar

An eternity collar is a BDSM collar worn by a submissive as a sign of devotion and intended never to be taken off. It may have no latches or clasps, creating the effect of an unending circle.

EUF

EUF is a sexual roleplay scenario, or pornography depicting one, in which a woman is accidentally, unintentionally, unwillingly, or reluctantly left in her underwear and feels embarrassed, ashamed, or humiliated. More rarely, EUF refers to the woman in that scenario.

Exclusive

In dating and relationships, exclusive describes two people who have a romantic or sexual relationship with one another and not with other people.

Exercise the ferret

An Australian humorous slang phrase meaning, of a man, to have penetrative sexual intercourse.

Facial

A facial is a sex act in which one person ejaculates onto another person’s face.

Factish

A “fact” treated as powerful or authoritative even though it is understood to be a constructed, fact-like idea rather than an unquestionable fact.

Fag

A derogatory term for a homosexual man or, more broadly, a queer person. In some contexts, it may be used as a reclaimed or endearing expression, but it can still be deeply offensive when used by others.

Fag cash

Vulgar BDSM slang for money or gifts given by a homosexual male paypig or finsub.

Fagette

An offensive, derogatory slang term for a female homosexual or lesbian.

Faggify

An offensive slang verb meaning to make someone homosexual or “faggish.”

Faggish

A derogatory, vulgar adjective describing someone or something as effeminate, gay, or homosexual.

Faggothood

Faggothood is an offensive, derogatory noun for being gay or homosexual. It describes homosexuality in a slur-based way.

Faggotization

An offensive, derogatory noun for the process of making someone or something homosexual.

Faggotize

A derogatory, vulgar verb meaning to make or depict someone or something as homosexual.

Faggotry

A derogatory, vulgar slang noun referring to stereotypical behavior associated with a gay man or to homosexuality in general. It can also be used more broadly for actions regarded as contemptible.

Faggy

An offensive, derogatory, and vulgar adjective used to describe someone or something as effeminate, gay, or homosexual.

Faglet

A derogatory, offensive, and sometimes vulgar noun for a young or short gay man.

Fagling

A derogatory, offensive, and sometimes vulgar slur for a young gay man.

Fagness

An offensive, vulgar slang noun referring to homosexuality or the quality of being a “fag,” an insulting slur for a gay man.

Fairy

“Fairy” is a derogatory slang term for a gay man, especially one perceived as effeminate. In other contexts, it refers to a mythical magical being rather than a sexuality-related identity.

Family

In LGBTQ+ slang, “family” describes something homosexual.

Fanny

A vulgar sexual slang term that can refer to sexual intercourse with a woman or to the female genitalia. In the UK, it can also refer to women regarded as sex objects; in Canada and the US, “fanny” commonly refers informally to the buttocks.

Fannypacking

Fannypacking is a sexual kink in which one partner is strapped to the other during intercourse.

Fap

“Fap” is informal, vulgar sexual slang for masturbating, being aroused enough to want to masturbate, or a masturbation session. It can also be used as an interjection or repeated sound in online sexual language, and sometimes refers to pornography.

Fartknocker

A derogatory slang term for a homosexual man; it can also be used as a general insult for a contemptible or annoying person.

Fatfur

Fatfur is a noun for a fetish involving overweight furries, or for an overweight furry who is part of this subculture or the focus of paraphilic arousal.

Fatherfucker

A vulgar noun for a woman who has sex with men much older than herself, or who has an Electra complex. It can also refer literally to someone who has incestuous sex with their father, and is used as a generic insult similar to “motherfucker.” A separate offensive usage refers to a gay man.

Fauxcest

Fauxcest is sexual roleplay or pornography involving fictional incest scenarios between people who are not actually related.

Feague

Feague is a sexual slang verb meaning to have sexual intercourse.

Febfem

A febfem is a generally cisgender bisexual woman who exclusively dates other cisgender women.

Feel the burn

In a sexual context, “feel the burn” refers to experiencing vaginal or anal pleasure or a burning sensation during sexual intercourse.

Female-to-male

Female-to-male describes a transmasculine person or a transition from being female to being male in gender identity, presentation, or physical characteristics. As a noun, it can refer to a trans man.

Fembrained

An offensive adjective describing a transgender person who is perceived as acting or thinking in ways stereotypically associated with women. It can be used either disapprovingly or approvingly, depending on the speaker.

Feminitude

Feminitude is a fetishized, objectified cultural ideal of femininity.

Femslash

Femslash is slash fiction centered on romantic and/or sexual relationships between female characters.

Femsub

Femsub is a noun for a female submissive in a BDSM or sexual context.

Fence sitter

“Fence sitter” is a slang term for a bisexual person or someone who is uncertain about their sexual orientation.

Fetich

Fetich is an archaic spelling of fetish. It is not a separate contemporary sexuality term.

Fetichise

Fetichise is an archaic spelling of the verb fetishize, a term used in sexuality-related contexts.

Fetichize

Fetichize is an archaic spelling of “fetishize.”

Fetish

Fetish is a kink or fetish-related term used to describe an interest, fantasy, activity, sensation, object, or style of erotic play. Individual interests and boundaries can vary widely.

Fetish-adjacent

Fetish-adjacent is an adjective for something related in some way to a sexual fetish.

Fetish-man

A man who practises magic using fetishes.

Fetisher

A fetisher is a person with a sexual fetish.

Fetishic

An adjective describing something related to a fetish.

Fetishisation

The British English spelling variant of “fetishization.”

Fetishise

Fetishise is a nonstandard British English spelling of the verb fetishize.

Fetishised

The simple past tense and past participle of “fetishise.”

Fetishises

Fetishises is the third-person singular simple present form of the verb fetishise.

Fetishising

The present participle and gerund form of “fetishise.”

Fetishist

A fetishist is a person who has a sexual fetish. The word can describe someone whose sexual pleasure is connected to a particular object, such as feet.

Fetishistic

Adjective describing something related to fetishism or to people who have fetishes.

Fetishizable

Fetishizable is an adjective describing something that can be fetishized or made the focus of fetishistic desire.

Fetishization

The act or process of fetishizing in a sexual or relationship context.

Fetishize

To fetishize someone or something is to make them the subject of an often sexual obsession. The verb can also mean treating a person as a sexually charged racial stereotype, reducing them to that stereotype rather than regarding them as an individual.

Fetishized

“Fetishized” is the past-tense and past-participle form of the verb “fetishize.”

Fetishizer

A fetishizer is a person who fetishizes someone or something.

Fetishizes

“Fetishizes” is the third-person singular simple present indicative form of the verb “fetishize.”

Fetishizing

Fetishizing is the present participle and gerund form of “fetishize.” It can also refer to the act or process of fetishizing.

Fetishwear

Fetishwear is clothing associated with or appealing to a sexual fetish. The term can include garments made from materials such as vinyl, PVC, or lycra.

Feygele

A noun referring to a man who is homosexual or believed to be homosexual.

Fg

“Fg” is a filter-avoidance spelling of “fag,” referring to a male homosexual.

Fggot

“Fggot” is a censored spelling of “faggot,” a homophobic slur directed at a homosexual man. It appears in hostile, insulting online language.

Fgt

“Fgt” is a filter-avoidance spelling of “faggot,” an offensive homophobic slur referring to a gay man or male homosexual.

Fidelity

Fidelity is faithfulness or loyalty to a romantic partner or spouse, including refraining from romantic or sexual relationships with third parties.

Figging

Figging is the BDSM practice of inserting a piece of ginger root into the anus, vagina, or urethra as punishment.

Fill

“Fill” is vulgar sexual slang meaning to have sexual intercourse with a female.

Financial domination

Financial domination, often called findom, is a BDSM practice involving erotic humiliation in which a submissive gives money and financial control to a dominator.

Financial slave

A submissive partner in a BDSM relationship who expresses sexual desire by sending money or goods to one or more masters or mistresses.

Findom

Findom is a BDSM term for financial domination: a dominant who takes control of another person’s finances or spending, often as part of a sexual or lifestyle dynamic.

Findomme

A findomme is a female dominant who practices financial domination, a BDSM dynamic centered on control involving money or financial submission.

Fingerfuck

A vulgar term for sexual penetration or masturbation using the fingers. It can function as either a noun or a verb.

Finish off

In sexual slang, “finish off” means to bring someone to orgasm.

Finsub

In BDSM terminology, a finsub is a submissive whose submission involves financial domination.

Fireplay

Fireplay is a sexual or BDSM practice involving fire, including practices such as setting fire to alcohol against the skin.

First base

“First base” is a US colloquial expression for kissing as the first phase of a sexual relationship.

Fishwife

A derogatory slang noun for the wife of a homosexual man.

Fisting

Fisting is sexual activity involving putting several fingers or a hand into a partner’s vagina or anus.

Fixation

Fixation is an intense preoccupation with a particular person, idea, or thing. In sexual contexts, it can refer to a fetish or a specific sexual turn-on.

Flagellist

A flagellist is a person who whips others or is whipped by others as a sexual fetish.

Flaming queen

A slang term for a homosexual man—often one who cross-dresses—whose manner is ostentatious, flamboyant, and diva-like.

Fling

A short romantic relationship that is often sexual.

Flirt

To flirt is to play at courtship or express sexual attraction in a light, playful way, often through conversation. “Flirt” can also mean a person who flirts frequently or an act of flirting.

Fluff

Fluff is an informal, euphemistic term for the passive partner in a lesbian relationship.

Footfag

An offensive, derogatory slang term for someone—especially a male—with a foot fetish.

Footslut

A submissive person with a foot fetish, especially in a BDSM or sexual context.

Forced bi

A sexual fetish in which a heterosexual person, usually a man, is forced to perform homosexual sex acts.

Forcefem

Forcefem is a BDSM term for forced feminization: a sex act or scenario in which a submissive partner is made to take on feminine roles.

Foreplay

Foreplay is sexual activity such as kissing or touching that occurs before other sexual activity or intercourse.

Foresex

Foresex is sexual activity that takes place before, or leads up to, sexual intercourse; it is another term for foreplay.

Fornication

Fornication is sexual intercourse between people who are not married to each other, or sex considered illicit in another way. The word can also be used more broadly for sex in general.

Fornicator

A noun for an unmarried person who engages in sexual intercourse, especially when the act is viewed as illicit or illegal.

Fouter

Fouter is a vulgar UK term for an act of sexual intercourse.

Fraternize

To have an intimate or sexual relationship with a forbidden party.

Free love

Free love is the practice of having sex without the restraints of marriage or a committed relationship.

Frerardie

A fan of the Gerard Way–Frank Iero romantic or sexual “ship” involving the My Chemical Romance bandmates; the word can also refer specifically to someone who believes the related conspiracy theory.

Friar Tuck

“Friar Tuck” is slang for a fuck, meaning sexual intercourse.

Front door

“Front door” is sexual slang for the vagina or penis when referring to sexual intercourse, contrasted with the anus, or “back door.”

Frottage

Sexual body rubbing; the term is also used for dry humping.

Fruit

A derogatory term for a homosexual man, especially one perceived as effeminate.

Fruit machine

In sexuality-related slang, a fruit machine is a device developed to identify homosexual people by measuring their physical responses to different kinds of pornography.

Fruitcake

A derogatory US slang term for a homosexual man.

Fruiter

A derogatory slang term for a homosexual man.

Fruitfest

A derogatory slang noun for a large gathering of homosexual men.

Fruity in the booty

US slang describing someone or something perceived as stereotypically homosexual, flamboyant, or effeminate.

Fuck

A vulgar and offensive verb meaning to have sexual intercourse, especially penetrative sex; it can also mean to sexually penetrate someone with a penis or dildo, or to masturbate.

Fuck juice

A vulgar sexual slang term for fluid produced during sexual intercourse, such as semen.

Fuck truck

A vulgar slang term for a van or truck fitted with a mattress in the back for sexual intercourse.

Fuckathon

A prolonged period of sexual intercourse. The word is vulgar sexual slang and is used as a noun.

Fuckbrain

A vulgar, derogatory noun for a man or woman who constantly thinks about sexual intercourse.

Fuckery

Fuckery is vulgar slang for sexual intercourse. As a noun, it can also refer to a brothel; in other slang uses, it means nonsense, trickery, or an unfair or morally wrong action.

Fucking

A vulgar term for an act of sexual intercourse, especially one described as lacking passion or sincere love.

Fucking machine

A fucking machine is a powered sexual device, substantially larger than a vibrator, designed to penetrate the user and provide sexual stimulation that may lead to orgasm.

Fuckjuice

Vulgar sexual slang for semen, pre-ejaculate, or vaginal fluids, especially fluids produced during sexual intercourse.

Fuckless

Fuckless is a vulgar slang adjective describing something devoid of sexual intercourse.

Fuckmaster

A vulgar noun for a person regarded as exceptionally skilled at sexual intercourse.

Fuckmeat

Fuckmeat is vulgar sexual slang for people regarded as objects for sexual intercourse. In some usage, it also refers to a penis.

Fuckmobile

A vulgar slang noun for a vehicle used for sexual intercourse.

Fuckpad

A vulgar slang term for a bedroom used for sex.

Fuckpuppet

A vulgar, derogatory noun for a person viewed as existing only for sexual intercourse. It can also be used as an insult for a contemptible person or fool.

Fuckstain

A vulgar noun for a spot or area discolored after absorbing sexual fluids, especially vaginal fluid or semen.

Fuckster

A vulgar, derogatory noun for a person—usually a man—who is an eager and energetic participant in sexual intercourse.

Fuckstress

A vulgar noun for a woman who is an eager and energetic participant in sexual intercourse; it can also refer to a female prostitute.

Fucksweat

Fucksweat is the sweat produced during sexual intercourse. It is a vulgar, uncountable noun.

Fucky-fucky

Fucky-fucky is vulgar sexual slang for sexual intercourse.

Fudge packer

A derogatory slang term for a gay man or for a person who practices anal sex.

Fujo out

To react with intense delight or fixation to romantic or sexual relationships between men, or to behave like a fujoshi. “Fujo out” is a humorous, intransitive verb.

Fujobrained

An Internet adjective describing a female person who is obsessed with media featuring romantic or sexual relationships between men.

Fujoshi

A female fan of media featuring romantic or sexual relationships between men.

Fujoslop

Fujoslop is a derogatory internet noun for low-quality media depicting romantic or sexual relationships between men and marketed toward women. More broadly, it can refer to anything seen as appealing to fujoshis.

Funishment

Funishment is a BDSM term for a “punishment” carried out for the submissive’s enjoyment rather than as discipline.

Funny

In derogatory, nonstandard slang, “funny” can describe someone as homosexual or gay.

Funny business

“Funny business” is slang for sexual intercourse or other sexual activity. It can also refer more generally to unethical behaviour, especially in the phrase “no funny business.”

FWB

FWB means “friends with benefits.” It describes a relationship in which people have a friendship and also have sexual contact without automatically treating the connection as a committed romantic partnership.

Gape

In sexual and pornographic usage, “gape” refers to depicting an anal or vaginal cavity as dilated after penetrative sexual activity.

Gay

Gay is an identity term commonly used for people whose enduring romantic, emotional, and/or physical attractions are to people of the same gender.

Gay as a lark

An expression describing someone or something as very homosexual.

Gay as pink ink

“Gay as pink ink” is slang describing someone or something as overtly or flamboyantly homosexual.

Gay as springtime

A derogatory phrase describing something as overtly or flamboyantly homosexual.

Gay bar

A gay bar is a tavern or nightclub primarily serving lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people. In the Philippines, the term can also refer to a gay strip club.

Gay bob

“Gay bob” is a colloquial, derogatory term for a person or behavior seen as divergent from a group, using comparison with a homosexual person.

Gay curious

Gay-curious describes someone who is curious about their own homosexuality or interested in trying same-sex sexual or romantic experiences.

Gay for pay

“Gay for pay” describes performing a homosexual role for money, typically as paid entertainment or sexual performance.

Gay for the stay

“Gay for the stay” is a colloquial adjective describing someone who engages in homosexual relationships while segregated from the opposite sex.

Gay icon

A celebrity or fictional character admired especially by gay men and/or lesbians.

Gay man

A gay man is a man who is sexually or romantically attracted exclusively to other men.

Gay panic defense

The gay panic defense is a claim of self-defense based on an unwanted homosexual advance.

Gay pride

Gay pride is a positive sense of identity connected with being gay, including rejecting shame imposed by homophobia. It can also refer to a gay pride festival or parade.

Gay vague

Gay vague is an advertising strategy that appeals to gay consumers through subtle, ambiguous, or not fully explicit representations of same-sex relationships or sexual orientations.

Gay-hate

Gay-hate is dislike or hatred directed at homosexual people. The uncountable noun can also modify phrases such as “gay-hate killings” or describe preaching that expresses hostility toward gay people.

Gay-shaming

Gay-shaming is criticizing or deriding someone because of their homosexual orientation. It is also the present-participial and gerund form of “gay-shame.”

Gay-straight alliance

A school- or community-based organization that offers a safe, supportive environment for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer youth, along with their straight supporters.

Gaybait

Gaybait is slang for harassing or vilifying someone because they are believed, accurately or not, to be homosexual. It can also refer to queerbaiting, seducing a heterosexual person into homosexual relations, or a man who attracts gay men.

Gayby boom

“Gayby boom” is a noun for a sudden increase in the number of gay parents.

Gaycation

An informal noun for a vacation tailored to gay people or centered on gay subculture.

Gaycel

A gay man who identifies as an incel.

Gaydy

A neologistic noun for a gay woman or lesbian.

Gayer

“Gayer” is the comparative form of “gay,” meaning more gay. In colloquial UK usage, it can also refer to a gay person or be used as a derogatory insult, including with the sense of “more uncool.”

Gayface

Gayface is slang for an appearance that someone interprets as visibly or stereotypically homosexual, often associating effeminacy with men or masculinity with women. It can also refer to a straight person portraying a caricature of a gay person.

Gayfag

An offensive, vulgar slur for a homosexual person.

Gayification

Gayification describes the process of making something homosexual.

Gayish

An informal, non-comparable adjective describing something as somewhat homosexual or gay.

Gayization

Gayization is the act or process of making something gay or homosexual. The noun can describe a cultural shift in areas such as television or advertising.

Gaylicious

Gaylicious is slang for something strongly associated with gay identity or culture, or especially appealing to gay people.

Gayling

A gayling is a young or immature gay person. The noun is associated with sexual-orientation slang.

Gaymer

Gaymer is slang for a homosexual gamer, especially a gay man who plays video games.

Gaysoc

Gaysoc is a club or society, especially at a university, that promotes and supports the needs of gay people.

Gayspeak

Gayspeak is a style of language associated with people who are gay or homosexual.

Gaystream

Gaystream is a noun for the homosexual mainstream: gay culture, people, or interests treated as part of mainstream public life.

Gaytard

A derogatory slang term for a gay person, especially a gay man.

Gaywad

A vulgar, derogatory slang noun used as an insult for a homosexual person or for someone described as lame or uncool.

Gender

Gender refers to a person’s identification as a man, a woman, or something else, along with associated social roles, behaviors, cultural traits, and clothing. As an adjective, it can describe something that evokes positive feelings connected with gender, such as gender euphoria or gender envy.

Gender Expression

Gender expression is how a person communicates or presents gender through characteristics such as appearance, clothing, behavior, voice, or mannerisms.

Gender Identity

Gender identity is a person's internal understanding or experience of their own gender.

Genderfluid

Genderfluid describes a gender identity in which a person's experience of gender can change over time or across contexts.

Genderism

Genderism is a term for beliefs that treat gender as rigid—usually binary and inherently linked to sex assigned at birth—or for opposition to traditional gender roles and the idea that gender is distinct from sex. It can also refer to discrimination or claims that one gender is superior.

Genderqueer

Genderqueer is a gender identity or umbrella term for people whose gender falls outside or challenges a strict man/woman binary.

Generative act

“Generative act” refers to sexual intercourse between a man and a woman.

Genito-pelvic pain disorder

Genito-pelvic pain disorder is a disorder characterized by dyspareunia and vaginismus during sexual intercourse.

Genitorture

Genitorture is a BDSM and sexual term for torture of the genitals. It can refer to genital-torture acts, scenes, or content.

Genophobe

A genophobe is a person who has a psychological fear of sexual relations or sexual intercourse.

Genophobia

Genophobia is a physical or psychological fear of sexual relations or sexual intercourse.

Gentleman of the back door

“Gentleman of the back door” is a sexual expression for a man—chiefly a homosexual man—who has anal sex.

Get bent

A derogatory British slang expression meaning that someone was revealed to be homosexual. As an idiomatic imperative, “get bent” can also dismiss someone or what they are saying and end the conversation.

Get jiggy

“Get jiggy” is slang for having sexual intercourse. It is an intransitive verb phrase.

Get off

“Get off” means to cause sexual excitement or arousal, or to cause someone to experience an orgasm.

Get one's dick wet

“Get one’s dick wet” is vulgar sexual slang meaning to have sexual intercourse.

Get physical

“Get physical” is slang for beginning sexual physical contact, including contact as part of sexual intercourse.

Get up in

Slang for having sexual intercourse involving deep penetration.

GGG

GGG means “good, giving and game.” The acronym describes an approach to sex centered on being a considerate partner, giving mutual attention, and being open to trying things within reasonable personal boundaries.

Ghosting

Ghosting is abruptly ending communication with someone without explaining that the relationship or interaction is over.

Gigapassoid

A derogatory slang noun for a transgender person perceived as passing extremely well.

Giggity-giggity

Humorous sexual slang for sexual intercourse; it can also express sexual desire or function as a playful catchphrase.

Ginger beer

A Cockney slang term for a queer person—that is, a homosexual person. “Ginger beer” is also the name of a fermented, usually non-alcoholic ginger-flavoured drink.

Girl crazy

“Girl crazy” is an informal adjective describing strong romantic or sexual attraction to girls of the same age group.

Girls' love

Girls' love is a genre of Japanese media centered on romantic and/or sexual relationships between female characters.

Girlslash

Girlslash is slash fiction centered on romantic or sexual relationships between female characters.

Give someone one

“Give someone one” is vulgar slang meaning to have sexual intercourse with that person.

Go both ways

“Go both ways” is an informal phrase meaning to be bisexual, or, in sexual contexts, to be versatile and able to take either a top or bottom role.

Go combo

Australian slang for a Caucasian man having a sexual relationship with an Aboriginal woman.

Go in unto

“Go in unto” is a biblical phrase meaning for a man to have sexual intercourse with a woman.

Go off

“Go off” is sexual slang meaning to ejaculate or have an orgasm.

Golden shower boy

A gay man who enjoys urinating on other gay men or being urinated on by them.

Gooner

A gooner is someone characterized as being addicted to sexual or sexualized content, or someone who practices gooning: prolonged masturbation involving edging.

Goonslave

A noun for someone who repeatedly engages in gooning, especially while fixated on a particular person, character, or fetish; a frequent masturbator.

Gorean

Gorean describes a BDSM subculture or a person associated with the Gorean lifestyle portrayed in John Norman’s erotic science-fiction novels about the fictional world of Gor.

Goreanism

Goreanism is a BDSM subculture based on practices established in the fictional world of Gor, created by science-fiction author John Norman.

Gorillahon

A derogatory term for a trans woman perceived as exceptionally large or masculine-looking and recognizable as transgender because of her size.

Grass-eater

A derogatory slang term for a celibate man, especially a Japanese man, who avoids dating and sexual relationships.

Grease

Grease is informal slang for having sexual intercourse.

Gurl

“Gurl” is a term of address used between cis gay men, transgender women, or drag queens. It can also refer to a trans girl or woman and serves as an informal alternative spelling of “girl.”

Gynecophile

Gynecophile refers to a lesbian or to someone sexually attracted to women. As an adjective, it describes sexual attraction to women; it can also specify attraction to adult women.

Gynomonoecious

In botany, describing a plant that has both bisexual flowers and female flowers on the same plant.

Haa

“Haa” is an expression representing the sound of heavy breathing during sexual arousal.

Half-virgin

A person who has engaged in some sexual activity but has not had intercourse.

Hardcore

In sexual and pornography contexts, hardcore describes explicit material depicting penetration and sexual activity characterized as abnormal. It can also mean obscene or highly explicit.

Hardcore pornography

Hardcore pornography is sexually explicit pornography that depicts sexual penetration or other explicit sexual acts.

Hasbian

A slang term for a woman who once identified as lesbian but now identifies as heterosexual or bisexual. It is sometimes used in a derogatory or offensive way.

Hate fuck

Vulgar sexual slang for sexual intercourse between people who hate each other; it can also refer to having sex with someone one hates.

Hate sex

Hate sex is sexual intercourse between people who hate one another. The phrase is an informal slang term and is typically used as a noun.

Have

“Have” can mean to engage in sexual intercourse.

Have an affair

To engage in a romantic or sexual relationship outside a marriage.

Have it off

“Have it off” is slang for having sexual intercourse.

He-she

An offensive, informal term for a transgender woman—a woman who was assigned male at birth. It has also been used as a derogatory label for a butch or masculine woman, and sometimes for a trans man viewed as a masculine woman.

Healslut

A BDSM slang term for a person who plays a healer character in a multiplayer video game while taking a submissive role and providing healing support to a dominant tank.

Helicity

Helicity is a measure of how vortex lines in fluid flow, or field lines in magnetic or electromagnetic fields, twist, kink, link, or coil around one another. In physics, it can also mean the component of a moving particle’s quantized spin along its direction of motion.

Hentai

Hentai is anime, manga, or a similar medium featuring heavily sexual or pornographic art.

Het

In fan fiction, “het” refers to stories involving characters in an opposite-sex romantic or sexual relationship. As slang, “het” can also mean heterosexual or refer to a heterosexual person.

Heteroflexible

Heteroflexible describes someone who is primarily heterosexual but open to a limited amount of same-sex or homosexual activity. It can also describe a person with that sexual orientation or pattern of behavior.

Heteronormativity

The assumption that everyone is either male or female in both sex and gender, and that sexual or romantic attraction and activity occur only—or are only considered normal—between people of different sexes.

Heterosexuality

Heterosexuality is sexual and romantic attraction primarily or exclusively to people of the opposite sex. The word can also refer to sexual activity with a person of the opposite sex.

Hetfic

Hetfic is fan fiction featuring fictional characters or celebrities in an opposite-sex romantic or sexual relationship. The word can refer to one story or to this type of fan fiction collectively.

Hetsex

Hetsex is an informal term for heterosexual sexual intercourse. It can also be used informally as an adjective meaning heterosexual.

Hit and run

In sexual slang, “hit and run” refers to sexual intercourse followed by a prompt departure—a one-night stand.

HLB

HLB is an abbreviation referring to a homosexual, lesbian, or bisexual person.

Holigay

A slang noun for a holiday or festive occasion associated with homosexuality or gay culture.

Holocaust

The Holocaust refers to the systematic mass murder carried out by Nazi Germany shortly before and during World War II against Jews and, more broadly, disabled people, homosexuals, Romanis, Slavs, and others. The word can also refer more generally to the state-sponsored mass murder of a particular group.

Homiesexual

An internet adjective describing homosexual-appearing behavior between a person and his male friends.

Homo

“Homo” is an adjective describing something related to homosexuality. As a clipped noun for “homosexual,” it is colloquial and often derogatory, so it is generally not a neutral way to refer to a person.

Homocentric

Homocentric is an adjective describing something with a homosexual bias or basis.

Homocrat

An offensive U.S. political slang term for a gay person who supports the Democratic Party. In historical usage, it could also refer specifically to a gay assimilationist who favored gradual, party-aligned progress toward equality rather than radical activism.

Homoculture

Homoculture refers to the subculture of homosexual people.

Homoecious

Homoecious is a botanical adjective describing a plant species whose flowers are all hermaphroditic, or bisexual, with both stamens and carpels.

Homoerotic

Homoerotic describes something that relates to, expresses, or arouses same-sex sexual desire or love.

Homoerotica

Homoerotica is erotic material involving homosexual attraction or desire, including homoerotic imagery, lyrics, or other creative work.

Homoerotophobia

Homoerotophobia is antipathy toward homosexual people; it refers to homophobia.

Homofascism

Homofascism is a derogatory noun for a political stance that associates fascism with homosexuality. It can also be used disparagingly for aggressive support of gay rights.

Homoflexible

Homoflexible describes someone who is primarily homosexual but experiences limited attraction to other genders or is willing to take part in heterosexual activity.

Homohysteria

Homohysteria is a cultural aversion to being perceived as homosexual, particularly when that perception leads men to avoid behaviors stereotypically associated with being gay.

Homolover

A derogatory neologism for a person who likes or supports homosexual people.

Homomisia

Homomisia is a noun referring to hatred of homosexuals. It is an uncountable term.

Homomisic

Homomisic is an adjective describing hatred or prejudice directed at gay people.

Homonegative

An adjective describing something that holds or expresses negative attitudes toward homosexuality.

Homonegativity

Homonegativity is the presence of negative attitudes toward homosexuality.

Homoness

Homoness is an informal noun for the state or degree of being homosexual.

Homonormalization

Homonormalization is the process of absorbing homosexuality into heteronormative culture, often by presenting it in ways that conform to dominant social expectations.

Homonormativity

Homonormativity is the adoption of heterosexist values, beliefs, and norms within gay or queer communities. It can also refer to treating same-sex attraction and activity as normal in ways that preserve dominant expectations about relationships, gender, and social institutions.

Homopatriarchy

A social subsystem in which cisgender homosexual men predominate over other LGBTI people.

Homophilia

Homophilia is a noun referring to homosexuality.

Homophobe

A homophobe is a person who is prejudiced against homosexual people or LGBTQ+ people more broadly, or who exhibits homophobia.

Homophobia

Homophobia is hatred, fear, aversion, or prejudice directed at homosexual people. The term is also used more broadly for hatred, fear, aversion, or prejudice directed at LGBTQ+ people in general.

Homopositive

Expressing or reflecting a positive attitude toward homosexuality.

Homopositivity

Homopositivity is a positive attitude toward homosexuality.

Homopropaganda

A derogatory noun for propaganda promoting homosexuality.

Homosex

Homosex is a noun referring to sexual intercourse between people of the same sex.

Homosexless

An adjective describing something as both homosexual and sexless.

Homosexual

Homosexual describes sexual or romantic attraction to people of the same sex, typically in the sense of sole or exclusive attraction. It can also refer to a person with that attraction.

Homosexual transsexual

In Blanchard’s transsexualism typology, a transgender person who is attracted to people of the same birth sex.

Homosexualised

The simple past tense and past participle of “homosexualise.”

Homosexualises

Homosexualises is the form of the verb homosexualise used with a singular third-person subject in the simple present.

Homosexualising

Homosexualising is the present participle and gerund form of “homosexualise.”

Homosexualism

A derogatory term that portrays homosexuality or gayness as an ideology, rather than a sexual orientation. It also has a dated use meaning homosexuality itself.

Homosexuality

Homosexuality is sexual and romantic attraction primarily or exclusively to people of the same sex. The word can also refer to sexual activity between people of the same sex.

Homosexualize

A transitive verb meaning to make someone or something homosexual.

Homosexualized

The past-tense and past-participle form of “homosexualize.”

Homosexualizes

The third-person singular simple present indicative form of the verb “homosexualize.”

Homosexualizing

“Homosexualizing” is the -ing form of the verb “homosexualize,” used as either a present participle or a gerund.

Homosocialization

Homosocialization is the process of integrating individuals into a homosexual subculture or community.

Homotransphobic

Homotransphobic describes prejudice against gay people, transgender people, or both.

Honbeast

A derogatory term for a transgender woman described as grotesquely unattractive and non-passing. It is an insulting slur.

Honey trap

A honey trap is the use of a romantic or sexual relationship to entice someone into revealing secret information or entering a compromising situation. As a verb, “honey trap” means to entice someone in this way.

Hoochie

Hoochie is U.S. slang for sexual intercourse or sexual interaction. It can also refer to the vulva or genital area, or describe a woman in a revealing way or as sexually promiscuous; those uses are derogatory. In some contexts, it is a playful or affectionate form of address for a woman.

Hookup

A hookup is a casual sexual or intimate encounter without an automatic expectation of a committed relationship. The term is deliberately broad, so what happened during a hookup depends on context rather than one fixed sexual act.

Horse's hoof

“Horse’s hoof” is UK slang for a male homosexual.

Hothusband

Hothusband is slang for a husband who has sex with people other than his spouse with the spouse’s approval. As a verb, hothusbanding means taking part in this kind of consensual sexual relationship.

Housecest

Housecest is slang for a romantic or sexual relationship between people living in the same boarding house at a boarding school.

Hucow

Hucow is a noun for a person—particularly someone with large breasts—who roleplays as a dairy cow and engages in lactation for sexual purposes.

Humansexual

Humansexual describes sexual attraction to other people without specifically identifying as straight, homosexual, bisexual, or another particular orientation.

Humiliationplay

Humiliationplay is sexual roleplay involving acted-out humiliating or embarrassing situations, or one person being humiliated by another.

Hump

“Hump” is vulgar slang for an act of sexual intercourse. It is used as both a noun and a verb.

Humpa humpa

An informal, uncountable noun referring to sexual intercourse.

Humpathon

A slang noun for a prolonged session of sexual intercourse.

Humping

“Humping” is vulgar slang for sexual intercourse. It is the gerund or present participle form of “hump” when used in this sexual sense.

Hyperdom

Hyperdom refers to a person who is excessively dominant. It can also describe excessive domination or the act of dominating excessively, particularly in BDSM and sexuality-related contexts.

Hyperscat

Hyperscat is a kink or fetish involving excessive defecation or an abnormal amount of feces, usually in role-play, fiction, or art, and sometimes involving diapers.

I'm a lesbian

“I’m a lesbian” is a phrase used by a woman to state that she is sexually attracted to women.

I'm bisexual

“I’m bisexual” is a phrase a speaker uses to state that they are bisexual.

I'm homosexual

“I’m homosexual” is a phrase in which the speaker states that they are homosexual.

Impact Play

Impact play is a category of BDSM activity involving consensual striking of the body by hand or with implements to create sensation.

Impotent

Impotent describes an inability to engage in sexual intercourse, often because of an inability to achieve or sustain an erection. As a noun, it can refer to a man with erectile dysfunction.

In and out

“In and out” is an informal expression for sexual intercourse, especially a brief session.

In the closet

“In the closet” describes someone who is not open about their sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or gender identity.

In the sack

“In the sack” is an informal idiom meaning in bed, especially in reference to having sex or sexual performance. It can also refer literally to being in bed.

In-out

A slang noun referring to sexual intercourse.

Inland snake-eyed skink

A common name for any member of the species Cryptoblepharus australis, an arboreal skink endemic to inland and Central Australia.

Insertee

A noun for the person who is penetrated by another person during sexual intercourse.

Insertor

A noun for the person who penetrates another partner during sexual intercourse.

Insta-sex

Insta-sex is slang for sexual intercourse with someone soon after meeting them.

Intercourse

Intercourse is a formal term for sexual intercourse; its exact scope can depend on context.

Intercourser

A noun referring to someone who has sexual intercourse. The word is sometimes derogatory.

Interintromission

Interintromission is an adjective describing the period or event between successive intromissions during sexual intercourse.

Intimate relations

“Intimate relations” is a plural noun phrase referring to sexual intercourse.

Intimatopia

Intimatopia is a fantasy world imagined as an ideal setting for sexually charged relationships built on sustained emotional intimacy.

Inversion

In sexuality-related usage, inversion refers to homosexuality, particularly in early psychoanalysis.

Inversionism

A noun referring to homosexuality, described as sexual inversion.

Inversionist

A proponent of the sexual inversion theory of homosexuality.

Involve

As a relationship verb, involve means to engage someone or oneself in an emotional or sexual relationship, typically followed by “with.”

Iron hoof

A Cockney slang noun referring to a gay man.

Item

In relationship slang, an item is a pair of people who are romantically or sexually involved with each other.

Jape

In sexual slang, “jape” means to have sexual intercourse. It can also refer to a joke, prank, or act of mockery in nonsexual usage.

Jelly roll

A US slang expression for the female genitalia, sexual intercourse, or a lover.

Jessie

A dated, colloquial term for a man described as cowardly, effeminate, or homosexual; an alternative letter-case form of “jessie.”

Jig-jig

“Jig-jig” is slang for sexual intercourse. It can be used as a noun for sex or as a verb meaning to have sex.

Jigajig

Jigajig is slang for sexual intercourse. It is an uncountable noun.

Jigga-jigga

Jigga-jigga is a slang noun referring to sexual intercourse.

Juju

Juju is a fetish or charm believed to possess magical or supernatural powers. The word can also refer to the power attributed to such an object.

Juke

To juke is to thrust with the pelvis, especially during sexual intercourse.

Jump

In US informal slang, “jump” means to engage in sexual intercourse with a person.

Jumpoff

A jumpoff is a sexual partner who is more than a one-night stand but is not intended to become a long-term romantic partner.

K/S

K/S is fan fiction in which James T. Kirk and Spock from the Star Trek franchise are depicted in a homosexual relationship.

Kai kai

Kai kai refers to sexual activity or intercourse between drag queens.

Kamp

Kamp is an adjective describing something homosexual. In historical New Zealand Māori usage, “kamp girls” referred to lesbians.

Kathoey

Kathoey is a term for a feminine or effeminate transgender person, or a third-gender person assigned male at birth, from Cambodia, Laos, or Thailand. In Thailand, it can also refer to an effeminate gay man.

Kiki

A slang term for a lesbian who is neither butch nor femme. The term is classified as derogatory.

Kink

Kink is a broad term for sexual interests, fantasies, roles, or practices that a person or community regards as outside conventional sexual norms.

Kink meme

An online space where people anonymously post requests for fan fiction involving a specific kink, and others fulfill those requests.

Kink on

To have a kink for a particular person, activity, or sexual idea.

Kink out

To dress in kinky, BDSM-themed clothing.

Kink-shamed

The simple past and past-participle form of kink-shame.

Kink-shames

Kink-shames is the third-person singular present-tense form of the verb kink-shame.

Kink-shaming

Kink-shaming is the present participle and gerund form of “kink-shame.”

Kinkable

Adjective describing something in which kinks may be formed.

Kinkadian

Kinkadian is an adjective relating to American painter Thomas Kinkade or his artistic style.

Kinkaider

A Kinkaider is a person who claimed land under the provisions of the Kinkaid Act.

Kinked

“Kinked” is the simple past tense and past participle of “kink.” As an adjective, it describes something bent or twisted into a tight curl.

Kinked on

Kinked on is the simple past and past participle form of the verb “kink on.”

Kinked out

Kinked out is the simple past and past participle form of “kink out.”

Kinkedness

Kinkedness is the state of being kinked.

Kinkeeper

A kinkeeper is someone who maintains relationships with family and friends by investing time and energy in those social connections.

Kinkfic

Kinkfic is fan fiction that features kink content, particularly BDSM themes. The writing may explore sexual and emotional power dynamics, including dynamics that also appear in BDSM practices.

Kinkier

Kinkier is the comparative form of kinky, describing sexual activity, preferences, or behavior as more unconventional or more focused on kink than something else.

Kinkiest

The superlative form of kinky, describing someone or something as the most kinky in a comparison.

Kinkiness

Kinkiness is the state or quality of being kinky, or something characterized as kinky.

Kinking

Kinking is the present participle and gerund form of the verb “kink.”

Kinking on

“Kinking on” functions as both the present participle and gerund of “kink on.”

Kinking out

The present-participle and gerund form of the verb “kink out.”

Kinkled

Kinkled is the past-tense and past-participle form of the verb kinkle.

Kinkless

Describes sex or sexual behavior presented as not kinky and without unusual sexual practices.

Kinkling

Kinkling is the present-participle and gerund form of the verb “kinkle.”

Kinkly

Kinkly is an adjective describing hair that is tightly curled, kinked, or liable to kink.

Kinks on

“Kinks on” is the third-person singular simple present indicative form of “kink on.”

Kinks out

The third-person singular simple present form of the verb “kink out.”

Kinkshame

To mock, shame, bully, harass, or condemn someone because of their sexual preferences, interests, or fetishes; the verb can also describe condemning a sexual preference or fetish itself.

Kinkshamed

The simple past tense and past participle of “kinkshame.”

Kinkshames

The third-person singular simple present form of the verb “kinkshame.”

Kinkshaming

Kinkshaming is the -ing form of the verb kinkshame, used as either a present participle or a gerund.

Kinkstress

A female kinkster: a woman who participates in or is associated with kink or BDSM.

Kinkwear

Kinkwear is clothing associated with sexual kinks. Fetishwear is a near synonym.

Kinky

Kinky describes unconventional sexual preferences, behavior, or practices, including fetishism and sadomasochism. It is an informal adjective.

Kittenfishing

Kittenfishing is a term used in modern dating. Its exact meaning depends on the behavior, stage, or expectation being described and on the context in which people use the term.

Kleptogamy

Kleptogamy is deceptive dating or mating in which someone imitates women’s attitudes or claims to share women’s views to obtain sex or marriage.

Kleptogenesis

Kleptogenesis is reproduction in which a unisexual species uses sperm obtained through mating with members of a related bisexual species.

Knobbing

Knobbing is UK vulgar slang for a session of penetrative sexual intercourse or the act of sexual penetration.

Knowledge

In sexual or legal language, knowledge can refer to sexual intimacy or intercourse, usually in the phrase “carnal knowledge.”

Kothi

In the culture of the Indian subcontinent, kothi refers to an effeminate man who takes on a passive or female gender role in same-sex relationships.

Labrys

Labrys is a double-headed axe symbol associated with lesbian pride.

Lactophilia

Lactophilia is a sexual fetish involving lactating breasts and breastfeeding.

Ladder theory

Ladder theory is an informal model claiming that men rank women on one scale based on attractiveness, while women place potential sexual partners and non-sexual friends on two separate scales.

Lapidable

Lapidable is an adjective describing a woman considered nubile or mature for sexual intercourse. It is a non-comparable adjective.

Late bloomer

A late bloomer is a person who enters a romantic relationship or has sexual intercourse significantly later in life than is typical.

Latent

In sexuality-related usage, latent describes homosexuality that is present but concealed or inactive.

Latexwear

Latexwear is fetishwear made from latex.

Lavender

Lavender describes something related to lesbian feminism, opposed to heterosexism, or associated with LGBT people and rights.

Lavender lad

“Lavender lad” is U.S. slang for a homosexual man.

Lavender linguistics

Lavender linguistics is the study of language as used by gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and queer speakers.

Lavender marriage

A lavender marriage is a heterosexual marriage of convenience intended to conceal one or both spouses’ homosexual sexual orientation.

Lavender scare

The Lavender Scare refers to the fear and persecution of homosexuals in the United States during the 1950s.

Lay

In sexual slang, a lay is an act of sexual intercourse.

Lay up

“Lay up” is US sexual slang meaning to have sex or enter a sexual relationship.

Layless

Layless is an informal adjective describing someone or something lacking sexual intercourse.

LBT

LBT is an adjective describing something related to lesbian, bisexual, and/or transgender people or communities.

Leather queen

A slang term for a gay man with a fetish for leather.

Leatherwoman

A leatherwoman is a woman who belongs to a sexual subculture centered on a fetish for leather clothing.

Legover

A slang noun referring to an act of sexual intercourse.

Lesbian

Lesbian commonly describes a woman whose enduring romantic, emotional, and/or physical attraction is to other women.

Lesbian bed death

“Lesbian bed death” is a label for the supposed phenomenon that lesbian couples in committed relationships have less sex than other couples, with sexual intimacy declining as the relationship lasts longer.

Lesbian rule

“Lesbian rule” is an alternative letter-case form of “lesbian rule.” The phrase can also refer to a flexible rule used to follow irregular curves, or figuratively to a principle adapted to different circumstances.

Lesbian until graduation

“Lesbian until graduation” is slang for a high-school- or college-aged woman who is experimenting with, or temporarily adopting, a lesbian or bisexual identity.

Lesbianate

Lesbianate is a verb meaning to engage in lesbian sex.

Lesbianism

Lesbianism is female homosexuality: the state of a woman being sexually attracted to other women.

Lesbianity

Lesbianity is the state or experience of being lesbian, referring to female homosexuality.

Lesbianlike

Resembling a lesbian or female homosexuality.

Lesbiflexible

Lesbiflexible describes someone who is primarily lesbian but has a limited attraction to men or a limited interest in romantic or sexual activity with a man.

Lesbigay

Lesbigay is an informal term describing something related to lesbian, bisexual, and gay people or the LGB community. It can also refer informally to a lesbian, bisexual, or gay person.

Lesbigaytrans

An informal adjective describing something related to lesbian, bisexual, gay, and transgender or transsexual people, or to the LGBT community.

Lesbophile

A person, typically not a lesbian, who has a fondness for lesbians or for erotic contact between women.

Lesbophobia

Lesbophobia is fear, dislike, or hatred directed at lesbians.

Lesboy

A person who identifies as both male and lesbian.

Lesbro

Lesbro is derogatory slang for a man who is sycophantic or groveling toward lesbians and/or bisexual women. It can also refer to a male friend or companion of a lesbian.

Lez out

A colloquial verb, chiefly used of a heterosexual woman, meaning to engage in lesbian activity.

Lezploitation

Lezploitation is the portrayal or exploitation of women’s same-sex relationships and female-female sexual expression in media, especially to titillate heterosexual men.

LGD

LGD is an initialism for “Lesbians Getting Dicked,” a pornography genre centered on a lesbian character being pushed into sexual activity with a man.

Liaison

A liaison is an illicit sexual relationship or affair.

Liberal homophobia

Liberal homophobia is the acceptance of homosexuality only as a private matter, with resistance to discussing it publicly or acknowledging it openly.

Libido

Libido is sexual desire or sex drive.

Live with

“Live with” can mean to share a home with an unmarried partner in a sexual relationship.

LJBF

LJBF is a slang verb meaning to ask someone to remain a platonic friend after turning down a romantic or sexual relationship.

Looner

An informal noun for a person with a balloon fetish.

Loss of consortium

In tort law, loss of consortium is the deprivation of benefits from a family relationship—including sex, affection, and companionship—because personal injuries caused by another person prevent the claimant from receiving them.

Love chair

A love chair is a custom-built 19th-century erotic device designed to allow one person to have sexual intercourse with two partners simultaneously.

Love doll

A love doll is a sex toy made in the size and shape of a human sexual partner, used to aid masturbation.

Love hotel

A love hotel is a short-stay hotel, found in Japan and elsewhere, that primarily provides private rooms for couples to have sex.

Love is love

“Love is love” is a phrase affirming that love in LGBTQ+ relationships is as genuine, valid, and personally meaningful as love in heterosexual relationships.

Love life

“Love life” refers to a person’s romantic or sexual relationships, considered as part of their personal life.

Love nest

A love nest is a place used or considered suitable for sexual intercourse. Colloquially, it can also mean a private home where a couple spend time together, or refer to the vagina.

Love toy

A love toy is an object used during sexual intercourse or for sexual pleasure; the phrase can also refer to a person treated as a source of sexual pleasure.

Love-shy

Love-shy describes someone who is ineffectual at courtship or at attaining sexual intercourse. As a rare noun, it refers especially to a man in that position.

Lovemaker

A lovemaker is a person who has sexual intercourse.

Lovers

“Lovers” is the plural of “lover” and describes people in a romantic or sexual relationship.

LTR

LTR means “long-term relationship.” On dating apps and in personal profiles, it usually indicates an interest in a relationship intended to be ongoing rather than primarily casual or short-term.

Luckshit

A vulgar, derogatory term for a transgender person who passes extremely well despite beginning their transition at a relatively late age.

Lust after

To lust after someone is to have strong sexual feelings or desire for that person, typically when the two people are not in a relationship.

Lustmaking

Sexual intercourse motivated solely by lust, rather than love or romantic feeling.

Lygosomine

Lygosomine is an adjective for a skink belonging to the subfamily Lygosominae.

M-spec

M-spec is an adjective for something connected with the multisexual spectrum, including bisexuality and pansexuality.

Mabouya

Mabouya is a name for an evil spirit in Caribbean folklore. In one historical-art description, a mabouya is shown with bent arms and legs and an erect penis.

Mahu

Mahu is a slang noun referring to a gay person or homosexual. In Hawaiian and Tahitian cultural contexts, it can also refer to a person of the third gender with traditional spiritual and social roles.

Make

As a colloquial, euphemistic verb, “make” can mean to have sexual intercourse with someone. This usage is associated with dialectal speech in parts of the UK, Ireland, and the US.

Make a move

“Make a move” means to approach or engage someone you find romantically or sexually appealing, usually with the aim of developing a romantic or sexual connection.

Make it

“Make it” is sexual slang meaning to have sexual intercourse.

Make out

Make out means to engage in heavy petting or sexual intercourse.

Make whoopee

“Make whoopee” is slang for having sexual intercourse.

Make-up sex

Sex between romantic partners after an argument, quarrel, or period of emotional tension, often as part of reconciling or restoring intimacy.

Male-to-female

Male-to-female describes a transfeminine person or a transition from being male to being female, including changes in gender identity, physical characteristics, or presentation. As a noun, it can refer to a male-to-female transgender person, also called a trans woman.

Malebrained

An offensive adjective describing a transgender person who acts and thinks in ways stereotypically associated with how a man should act and think, whether the speaker approves or disapproves.

Malesub

A male submissive, especially in a BDSM context.

Man cunt

A vulgar sexual slang term for a man’s anus, usually referring to the receptive partner in gay sex. It can also refer to the vulva or vagina of a trans man.

Man pussy

“Man pussy” is vulgar sexual slang for the anus and rectum of a man, typically referring to the receptive partner, or bottom, in gay sex. It can also refer to the vulva or vagina of a trans man.

Mandrel

A mandrel is a round object or tool used to support, guide, grip, or shape material. It can help shape or enlarge a ring, bend or enlarge a pipe without creasing or kinking it, or hold a workpiece or tool during machining. As a verb, mandrel means to shape something with a mandrel.

Mangina

A vulgar slang term for a man’s anus, especially in the context of gay sex. It is also used as a derogatory insult for a man perceived as cowardly, effeminate, or feminist.

Manipancha

A manipancha is a wooden humanoid figure used as a fetish in Africa and believed to enable communication with distant places.

Mankeeping

Mankeeping is the often-unseen social and emotional labor women perform for men in heterosexual relationships, including meeting emotional needs and acting as a partner’s life coach.

Mapplethorpian

Adjective describing something related to Robert Mapplethorpe (1946–1989), the American photographer known for controversial images of New York City’s homosexual male BDSM subculture.

Maricon

In some Spanish-speaking regions, especially Central America, “maricon” refers to an effeminate homosexual male.

Marital congress

Sexual intercourse between two people who are married to each other.

Marriage

In prison slang, “marriage” refers to a homosexual relationship between male prisoners.

Mary

“Mary” is a term of address for a male homosexual.

Masturbation

Masturbation is sexual stimulation of one's own body, commonly including the genitals, for pleasure or arousal.

Masturbational

Masturbational is an adjective describing something related to masturbation or sexually alluring in a way that incites a desire to masturbate.

Meat shot

A close-up image or video shot showing the genitals of one or more performers, typically in pornographic media.

Mercy fuck

A vulgar slang term for sexual intercourse given out of pity for someone perceived to have an inadequate sex life.

Merkin

Merkin is a slang term for either a pubic wig or, in sexuality-related slang, a companion used by a lesbian to present herself as straight. In the latter sense, it is a derogatory term.

Mess around

“Mess around” is an informal slang verb meaning to have a sexual relationship, especially one that is noncommittal.

Mesugaki

Mesugaki is Japanese sexual slang for a bratty, sexually provocative girl character—often young or young-looking—who teases or acts suggestively toward someone presented as her superior.

Metamour

A metamour is your partner’s other partner when you are not yourself romantically involved with that person.

Metrosexual

A dated term for a typically urban, heterosexual man associated with careful grooming, fashion, and personal aesthetics. It can also describe something relating to this kind of man or lifestyle.

Midfuck

A vulgar adjective describing something that happens during sexual intercourse.

Midsex

Midsex is an adjective describing something that happens during sexual intercourse.

Midshit

“Midshit” is derogatory transgender slang for a trans person who began transitioning at a relatively young age, but after puberty.

Mincer

A UK derogatory slang term for a homosexual man.

Ming

Ming is a verb meaning to bring people or animals together, or to be joined in marriage or sexual intercourse. In the supplied usage, it refers to joining or coupling, including sexual union.

Minute man

A slang term for a man who reaches orgasm undesirably quickly during sexual intercourse.

Miscegenetic

Miscegenetic is an adjective describing an interracial marriage or other interracial sexual or romantic relationship.

Miscegenous

Miscegenous describes an interracial marriage or other sexual or romantic relationship. It can also describe something relating to miscegenation.

Missionary

In sexual slang, “missionary” refers to sexual intercourse in the missionary position.

Missionary position

A sexual intercourse position in which a man and woman face each other, with the man on top.

Moffie

A derogatory and offensive South African term for an effeminate homosexual man.

Molly

Molly can refer to a male homosexual, especially one described as effeminate. In slang, it can also mean pure MDMA powder.

Molly house

A molly house was an 18th- or 19th-century English tavern or other establishment where homosexual men could meet for social and sexual encounters, including cross-dressing.

Mommy porn

“Mommy porn” is an informal term for mainstream erotic fiction aimed primarily at the tastes or sensibilities associated with mothers and housewives. In a more literal reading, it can also refer to pornography featuring mother characters.

Monk

An unmarried man who does not have sexual relationships. In sexuality-related usage, “monk” describes a man living without sex rather than necessarily referring to a member of a religious order.

Monoamory

Monoamory is the practice of having one romantic or sexual relationship at a time. It may not involve an expectation of mutuality and usually does not include an expectation of marriage.

Monoclinous

Monoclinous is an adjective describing something bisexual in a biological or botanical context.

Monogamous

Monogamous describes a relationship or partnership characterized by mutual sexual and romantic exclusivity, with one partner at a time.

Monogamy

Monogamy is a relationship structure based on romantic and/or sexual exclusivity between partners according to their agreements.

Monoheterosexual

Monoheterosexual describes a person who is sexually attracted only to people of the opposite sex. It is used in the heterosexual sense, excluding bisexual attraction.

Mononormativity

The assumption that romantic and sexual relationships are normal or acceptable only when they involve two monogamous partners. The term can also refer to treating attraction to people of only one gender as the only normal or significant form of sexuality.

Monosexism

Monosexism is the belief that people are, or should be, attracted to only one sex or gender. It can also involve denying that bisexuality and pansexuality exist or treating people who experience attraction beyond one sex or gender as wrong.

Monosexuality

Sexuality involving attraction to only one sex, generally described as heterosexuality or homosexuality.

Mount

A verb meaning to have or begin sexual intercourse with someone.

Mud shark

An offensive racial slur for a non-Black person—usually a white woman—who has sexual relationships with Black people, usually men.

Mudsharking

An offensive, derogatory slang term for a non-Black person—usually a white woman—seeking sexual relationships with Black people, usually men. It can also function as the present participle or gerund of “mudshark.”

Mukhannath

Mukhannath is a noun referring to the receptive partner in homosexual activity.

Multimate

Multimate is an adjective describing someone or something involving multiple romantic or sexual partners.

Munch

Munch is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Muscle boy

A slang term for a bodybuilder, especially a gay man.

Muscle Mary

“Muscle Mary” is derogatory slang for a homosexual man who works to maintain a muscular physique.

Mutual Masturbation

Mutual masturbation is sexual activity in which two or more people masturbate themselves or one another in each other’s presence.

Naai

Naai is South African slang for having sexual intercourse. It is a blunt, explicitly vulgar verb equivalent to “fuck.”

Nail

A vulgar slang verb meaning, of a male, to engage in sexual intercourse.

Nailing

“Nailing” is sexual slang for an act of sexual intercourse, especially rough or vigorous intercourse.

Nancy

A derogatory and offensive slang term for an effeminate man, especially a homosexual man.

Nancy Dawson

A derogatory slang term for a homosexual man, especially one regarded as effeminate.

Nappyheaded

A derogatory slang adjective describing a person with kinky or tightly curled hair.

Naps

“Naps” refers to kinky or curly hair.

Nasophilia

Nasophilia is a paraphilia involving sexual attraction to the nose or nostrils, also called nose fetishism.

Neck corset

A neck corset is a collar worn as fetishwear or as an alternative-fashion accessory.

Necrosadism

Necrosadism is sexual arousal or gratification derived from mutilating, humiliating, or otherwise defiling dead bodies. It refers to sadism directed toward the dead.

Nelly

A derogatory slang term for an effeminate homosexual man; it can also describe someone or something as unmanly or effeminate.

Netorase

Netorase is a Japanese slang term for a genre of sharing or cuckoldry pornography in which a protagonist’s love interest has sex with other people, and the protagonist enjoys, encourages, or causes it.

Neverpasser

A derogatory term for a transgender person who is seen as extremely clockable and incapable of passing.

New Relationship Energy

New relationship energy, or NRE, describes the heightened excitement and emotional or sexual intensity that can occur near the beginning of a new relationship.

Nibble

In informal sexual slang, “nibble” means to engage in sexual intercourse.

Nick-bent

A UK slang adjective describing someone who engages in homosexual relationships only while in prison and segregated from the opposite sex.

Niggerfucker

A highly offensive racial slur used as a noun for someone who has sexual intercourse with Black people. It is also recorded as a derogatory term for a Black person.

Night emission

An ejaculation or orgasm that occurs during sleep, often accompanied by an erotic dream.

Night hunting

Night hunting is a traditional Bhutanese courtship custom in which a young man enters a young woman’s room through her window at night to engage in sexual activity.

No money, no honey

“No money, no honey” is a slang phrase meaning that sexual intercourse will not take place without payment.

No promo homo

“No promo homo” describes laws in some U.S. states that prohibit or limit discussion of homosexuality and transgender identity in public schools.

No-op

In transgender usage, “no-op” describes a transgender person who has chosen not to undergo sex reassignment surgery. It can function as a noun or an adjective. Outside sexuality and gender contexts, “no-op” also means an instruction or operation that has no effect.

Nocturnal emission

An ejaculation or orgasm that occurs during sleep, often accompanied by an erotic dream.

Nodome

Nodome is a crossing hitch used in Japanese rope bondage. It is also referred to as a Munter hitch.

Non-kinkster

A non-kinkster is a person who is not a kinkster, meaning they are outside the BDSM or kink community.

Non-op

Non-op is an informal term for a transgender person who has chosen not to undergo sex reassignment surgery. It can also describe that person or their status in relation to surgery.

Nonbinary

Nonbinary is an umbrella term and identity for people whose gender is not exclusively man or woman.

Nonbisexual

Nonbisexual describes a person who is not bisexual. As a noun, it refers to someone who is not bisexual.

Noncelibate

Noncelibate describes someone who is not celibate and engages in sexual activity, including sexual intercourse. As a noun, a noncelibate is a person who engages in sexual intercourse.

Noncing

A derogatory UK and Irish slang term for having sexual intercourse with someone under the age of sixteen.

Nonconception

Nonconception is the failure to conceive after sexual intercourse, when an egg is not fertilized by sperm.

Nonfetishized

Nonfetishized describes something that is not fetishized or treated as a fetish.

Nongay

Nongay describes a person or thing as not gay, meaning not homosexual. As a noun, a nongay is a person who is not gay.

Nonhomosexual

Nonhomosexual describes something that is not homosexual. As a noun, it refers to a person who is not homosexual.

Nonintercourse

Nonintercourse means a lack of sexual intercourse, or describes something that does not involve or relate to sexual intercourse.

Nonkinky

Nonkinky describes sex or sexual activity that does not involve kink. It can also broadly mean not kinky.

Nonpenetrative sex

Sexual activity that does not involve penetration of the vagina, mouth, or anus. It can include masturbation, manual sex, mutual masturbation, frottage, and dry humping.

Nonqueer

Nonqueer describes a person, identity, relationship, or subject that is not queer, including identities such as heterosexual or otherwise non-LGBTQ+.

Nontrans

Nontrans is an adjective describing something that is not trans, meaning not transgender or transsexual.

Nonvanilla

Nonvanilla describes sexual activity, preferences, or experiences that are not conventional or routine, often involving unusual or kinky elements.

NPNC

NPNC means “no pic, no chat.” On dating and hookup apps, it tells other users that a person does not want to continue a conversation unless they can see a profile or face photo.

NSA

NSA means “no strings attached.” In dating and hookup contexts, it describes an arrangement without an expectation of a committed romantic relationship or long-term obligation.

Nukige

Nukige is a Japanese visual novel genre built around sexually explicit content intended primarily to facilitate masturbation or sexual gratification, rather than story or character relationships.

Number two

“Number two” is a slang term for a mistress: a woman involved in an extramarital relationship, generally including sexual relations.

Oats

“Oats” is slang for sexual intercourse, sexual satisfaction, or semen.

Occupy

In sexual slang, occupy is a verb meaning to have sexual intercourse with someone.

Oculophilia

Oculophilia is a paraphilia involving sexual attraction to eyes, including the act of licking them. It is also called eye fetishism.

Oil driller

An uncommon, derogatory internet term for a non-Black person—usually a white man—who seeks sexual or romantic relationships with Black women.

Old hat

“Old hat” is an archaic slang term for sexual intercourse. It can also refer to the female genitalia or, derogatorily, to a woman treated as a sexual partner.

Oldshit

“Oldshit” is a derogatory term for a transgender person who began transitioning relatively late, after puberty was complete. In some usage, the label is applied to people who started transitioning in their late teens or adulthood, sometimes as part of jokes or criticism about trans people’s attitudes toward age and transition.

Olingo

A small procyonid of most species in the genus Bassaricyon, resembling a kinkajou and native to the rainforests of Central and South America.

Omnifutuent

An adjective meaning bisexual; a nonce-word used to describe someone attracted to more than one sex.

Omnisexuality

Omnisexuality is a sexual orientation involving the potential for aesthetic attraction, romantic love, and/or sexual desire toward people of multiple genders, with different patterns of attraction for different genders.

Omorashi

Omorashi is a sexual practice or paraphilia involving arousal from the sensation of having a full urinary bladder or from someone else having one. It can also include erotic denial of bathroom access.

On a promise

“On a promise” is a UK colloquial phrase meaning that someone is looking forward to having sexual intercourse later.

On the other bus

“On the other bus” is a derogatory UK slang phrase meaning homosexual or gay.

Once you go black

“Once you go black” is an informal phrase suggesting that someone who has had sex with a Black person will not return to sexual relationships with people of their previous race.

Once you go black, you never go back

An informal sexual proverb claiming that after someone has had sex with a Black person, they will not want sex with non-Black people. It is a racialized joke or stereotype rather than a literal rule about sexual preference.

Open Relationship

An open relationship is a consensually non-monogamous relationship in which partners agree that one or both may have sexual or romantic connections with other people.

Opposite sex

“Opposite sex” refers to people of different sexes, especially a woman and a man in a heterosexual relationship or other relationship context.

Oral Sex

Oral sex is sexual activity involving stimulation of a partner’s genitals or anus with the mouth.

Orgasm

An orgasm is a peak or climax of sexual arousal that can involve intense pleasure and involuntary physical responses.

Orgastic potency

Orgastic potency is the ability to experience complete orgasmic gratification during sexual activity. In this psychological theory, it involves surrender to involuntary bodily pleasure and the full release of sexual excitation, and is distinguished from erectile or ejaculatory potency.

Otter

Otter is gay slang commonly used for a relatively lean or slim man with noticeable body hair. The term is part of an informal family of gay-community body-type labels that also includes bear and twink.

Outercourse

Outercourse is partnered sexual activity that does not involve penetration.

Outfuck

A vulgar transitive verb meaning to have better or more frequent sex than someone else, or to be superior to them at sexual intercourse.

Outgay

Outgay is an informal transitive verb meaning to surpass someone in being homosexual or in behaving in a stereotypically gay manner.

Oyakodon

Oyakodon is a sexual slang term for a threesome involving the mother of one person’s partner.

P-in-V

P-in-V means sexual intercourse involving penile-vaginal penetration, also called vaginal sex.

Painal

Painal is a noun for anal sex that causes pain to the receiving partner. The term can also describe intentionally painful anal sex in which the receiving partner wants the pain or finds it pleasurable.

Painplay

Painplay is a sexual practice involving the intentional infliction of pain, often in a BDSM or erotic context.

Palone-omi

A Polari noun referring to a homosexual woman.

Pansexual

Pansexual describes a person with the capacity for romantic, emotional, and/or physical attraction to people regardless of gender.

Pansexuality

Pansexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by the potential for aesthetic attraction, romantic love, and/or sexual desire toward people regardless of their gender or sex.

Pansified

A derogatory colloquial adjective describing something as effeminate or homosexual; it can also mean overly adorned or affected.

Pansy

A derogatory slang term for a male homosexual, especially one described as effeminate.

Panty man

A derogatory Caribbean slang term for a homosexual man.

Paramour

A paramour is a lover or sexual partner, especially someone involved in an affair or a secret or illicit relationship. The word is often dated or literary, and can refer specifically to a married person’s adulterous partner.

Parasexual

Parasexual is an adjective describing something related to parasexuality, or something indirectly connected with sex and sexuality rather than sex itself. It can also describe a one-sided sexual relationship that combines parasocial and sexual elements.

Park

In informal sexual slang, to park means to engage in romantic or sexual activity inside a stationary vehicle that was driven to a suitable spot for that purpose.

Parlorista

In the Philippines, parlorista refers to a low-income gay man who is described as feminine and stereotypically associated with work in a beauty parlor.

Passade

Passade is a noun for a brief romantic or sexual relationship—a fling.

Passion

Passion can refer to sexual intercourse, especially when it is highly emotional. It can also mean strong romantic love or another powerful emotion.

Passive

In a sexual or romantic relationship, passive describes someone who is inactive or submissive rather than taking an active role.

Passoid

A derogatory term, sometimes used in transgender slang, for a transgender person who passes.

Pause

“Pause” is slang used immediately after a statement to deny that it was intended as innuendo or to carry a homosexual meaning, especially when the wording could reasonably be interpreted that way.

Paypig

A paypig is a submissive participant in financial domination who provides another person with money. The term is internet slang associated with BDSM and sexuality.

Pedra Branca skink

Pedra Branca skink is a common name for Carinascincus palfreymani, a species of skink.

Peg house

A brothel for men who have sex with men.

Penetratee

A penetratee is the partner who is penetrated during sexual intercourse.

Penile pearl

A penile pearl is a small, bead-shaped implant placed beneath the skin of the penis for cosmetic appeal or to increase sexual pleasure during intercourse.

Perform

In sexual usage, perform can mean that a man is able to initiate or complete an act of sexual intercourse.

Period play

Period play is sexual intercourse during menstruation.

Perverted

Describing something related to, involving, or practicing unusual or “kinky” sex. The word is sometimes used as a derogatory label.

Peter puffer

A derogatory slang term for a gay man or male homosexual.

Petpill

Petpill is BDSM slang for a strong interest in petplay, especially the desire to be a long-term submissive partner. As a verb, to petpill someone is to influence them into developing an interest in petplay.

Petplay

Petplay is a form of roleplay in which one or more people take on animal roles, especially the role of a pet. It is often sexual, but it is not always sexual.

Petticoat punishment

Petticoat punishment is a BDSM fantasy scenario in which a boy is dressed in girls’ clothing as a form of supposed punishment or humiliation.

Petukh

Petukh is offensive, vulgar slang for a man forced into a homosexual relationship and used as a sex slave or servant by another man, especially in Russian prison and military systems.

Phallation

Phallation is sexual intercourse carried out by means of a penis.

Physical love

Physical love is a noun phrase referring to sexual intercourse.

Pick-up joint

A pick-up joint is a place, such as a nightclub, where people gather to find a romantic or sexual partner.

Pillow Princess

A pillow princess is a slang term for someone who prefers to receive sexual attention rather than reciprocating in the same way.

Pillow talk

Intimate conversation shared by bedmates, especially after sexual intercourse.

Pineapple

In BDSM and sexual contexts, “pineapple” is a safeword: a word used to signal a boundary or request during an intimate or kink interaction.

Ping

In colloquial slang, “ping” means to trigger someone’s gaydar or to look or act obviously homosexual.

Pink

In sexuality-related slang, pink describes something relating to homosexual people as a group. The usage is informal and can be derogatory.

Pink ceiling

An informal, often unacknowledged barrier that can limit promotion or advancement for gay and lesbian people, particularly in employment.

Pissplay

Pissplay is sexual activity involving urine or urination. It is a BDSM- and sexuality-related term, also written as “piss play.”

Pity fuck

“Pity fuck” is vulgar slang for sexual intercourse given out of pity for someone’s inadequate sex life.

Plate

In dating slang, a plate is a potential romantic or sexual partner whom someone keeps in touch with as part of plate spinning.

Plate spinning

Plate spinning is the practice of staying in contact with several potential romantic or sexual partners at the same time.

Playa

A playa is a player: someone who plays the field or has particular prowess in gaining romantic and sexual relationships.

Player

An informal term for a person who dates or has sexual relationships with multiple people instead of pursuing one long-term sexual relationship.

Plonker

A man who allows or approves sexual relationships between his girlfriend and his male friends. In UK, Irish, and Commonwealth slang, “plonker” can also refer to a penis, so the surrounding sexual context determines which sense is intended.

Plough the back forty

“Plough the back forty” is a vulgar slang expression meaning to engage in sexual intercourse.

Plurisexuality

Plurisexuality is a romantic or sexual orientation involving attraction to more than one gender. Bisexuality and pansexuality are examples of plurisexual identities.

Pocket pool

Pocket pool is slang for masturbating by manipulating the genitals through a trouser pocket.

Podophile

A podophile is a person who has a sexual interest in feet or a foot fetish.

Pogue

Pogue is a slang term for a young male described as a passive homosexual.

Point of inevitability

In sexual intercourse or masturbation, the point of inevitability is the level of male sexual arousal at which orgasm and ejaculation can no longer be stopped.

Poke

In sexual slang, “poke” means to penetrate someone during sexual intercourse. It is used as a verb and is informal or colloquial.

Political lesbianism

Political lesbianism is a feminist doctrine that promotes lesbianism and lesbian separatism as part of the struggle against sexism.

Pollution

In sexual usage, pollution is the ejaculation of semen outside sexual intercourse, especially during a nocturnal emission.

Polyamory

Polyamory is a form of consensual non-monogamy involving multiple romantic and/or intimate relationships with the knowledge and consent of the people involved.

Polycule

A polycule is a network or group of people connected through polyamorous relationships, even when every member is not romantically or sexually involved with every other member.

Polycurious

Polycurious describes someone who is curious about or open to polyamory and may be interested in relationships with multiple partners.

Polygamodioecious

In botany, describing plants in which some have bisexual and male flowers, while others have bisexual and female flowers.

Polysexual

Polysexual describes sexual attraction to many genders, sometimes specifically multiple but not all genders. In some relationship terminology, it can also describe being sexually open, rather than romantically open.

Pomosexual

Pomosexual describes someone or something that rejects, avoids, or does not fit within a sexual-orientation label such as heterosexual, homosexual, asexual, pansexual, or bisexual. As a noun, pomosexual refers to a person with this position.

Ponygirl

In BDSM, a ponygirl is a woman who takes on the role of a pony, usually in a submissive role and typically wearing tack such as a bridle and bit.

Poofter

A derogatory, vulgar slang term for a gay man, especially one perceived as effeminate. It is associated with Australian, Commonwealth, New Zealand, and Papua New Guinean English.

Poofterdom

An offensive noun referring to homosexuality.

Poofterism

An offensive slang noun referring to homosexuality, associated with Australia, New Zealand, South Africa, and the UK.

Poofy

A derogatory slang adjective referring to homosexual behavior or culture.

Poonce

An Australian slang noun referring to a male homosexual.

Poontang

Poontang is vulgar US slang for sexual intercourse with a woman. It can also refer to female genitalia or, in a dated and derogatory usage, a woman viewed in a heavily sexualized way.

Poovy

An adjective describing something homosexual or poofy.

Pop

“Pop” is a sexual slang verb meaning to sexually penetrate.

Porno chic

Porno chic is positive mainstream attention toward sexually explicit films, a phenomenon that began in the late 1960s around commercial American pornography.

Pornocopia

Pornocopia is a noun for an abundance or profusion of pornography, sexual imagery, or nudity.

Pornography

Pornography is the explicit literary or visual depiction of sexual subject matter, or material presented in an erotic way.

Pornonormativity

Pornonormativity is the shaping of human sexual expression by the conventions of mainstream pornography.

Pornophobe

A pornophobe is a person opposed to or hostile toward pornography and sexual expression in art.

Possess

In sexual usage, possess means to dominate someone sexually or to have sexual intercourse with them. More generally, it can mean to control or dominate a person, their heart, or their mind.

Postgay

An adjective describing a social condition or perspective understood as coming after homosexuality has been established as a social norm.

Postorgasmic illness syndrome

Postorgasmic illness syndrome is a syndrome in which men experience severe cognitive and physical symptoms immediately after ejaculation, including fatigue, muscular weakness, perspiration, and mood disturbances, without a local genital reaction.

Postqueer

Postqueer is an adjective describing something that comes after the establishment of the queer movement or queer theory.

Postsex

Postsex is an adjective describing something that occurs after sexual intercourse.

Postsexual

Postsexual describes something that occurs after sexual intercourse.

Potency

Potency is sexual virility: the ability to become erect or achieve orgasm.

Power Bottom

Power Bottom is a role-related term used in sexual, kink, or BDSM contexts. Role labels can describe preferences or dynamics but do not define a person's complete interests or boundaries.

Powerslash

Powerslash is slash fan fiction centered on a romantic or sexual relationship between characters with unequal social status or rank.

Practice girl

A derogatory term for a woman or girl someone does not want a genuine relationship with but may date or have sex with briefly to practice romantic or sexual skills and build confidence.

Pray the gay away

“Pray the gay away” is an informal US phrase meaning to attempt to change one’s homosexuality through prayer.

Pre Cum

Pre-cum, or pre-ejaculate, is fluid released from the penis before ejaculation.

Pre-everything

An informal adjective describing someone who has not undergone any gender-affirming health care procedures.

Pre-slash

Pre-slash is a subgenre of slash fiction in which a same-gender relationship between two characters has not yet developed or is only implied.

Preceremonial

Preceremonial describes sexual intercourse that takes place before a marriage ceremony between a couple committed to marrying in the future.

Precoitional

Precoitional describes something that occurs or exists before sexual intercourse.

Premature ejaculator

A man who experiences orgasm and ejaculates soon after initiating sexual intercourse, generally within one minute or less.

Presexual

Presexual describes something that occurs before sexual intercourse. It can also describe something not yet capable of sexual reproduction.

Pro-LGBT

Pro-LGBT describes a person, policy, organization, or other position that supports LGBT people and/or LGBT rights.

Procyonid

A procyonid is a member of the Procyonidae family of New World carnivores, which includes raccoons, coatis, kinkajous, olingos, ringtails, and cacomistles.

Protohomosexual

Protohomosexual is an adjective describing something related to the early development of homosexuality in an individual or society.

Pseudobisexual

Adjective describing something that appears bisexual but is not actually bisexual.

Pseudobisexuality

Pseudobisexuality is a concept in certain theories associated with Blanchard’s transsexualism typology. It describes an apparent bisexual attraction pattern arising from an autogynephilic desire to be a woman who is desired by, or has sex with, men.

Pseudoheterosexual

Pseudoheterosexual is an adjective for something that appears heterosexual but is homosexual in nature.

Pseudoheterosexuality

Pseudoheterosexuality is behavior that appears heterosexual but is understood as homosexual in underlying meaning or motivation.

Pseudohomosexual

According to Lionel Ovesey, pseudohomosexual describes a man whom he characterized as becoming homosexual through abnormal interpersonal relationships rather than having an innate homosexual orientation. It can also function as a noun for such a man.

Pseudohomosexuality

Pseudohomosexuality is a noun referring to the property of being pseudohomosexual.

Pull

In dating and sexual slang, “pull” means to attract someone and interest them in dating or pursuing them; in Ireland and the UK, it can also mean persuading someone to have sex.

Pump and dump

In sexual slang, a pump and dump is sex with a partner on one occasion, without an immediate intention to stay in contact or pursue a serious relationship. It can also be used as a verb.

Punani

Vulgar slang referring to the vulva or vagina, and also used for sexual intercourse with a woman.

Push it

“Push it” is sexual slang meaning to have sexual intercourse.

Pussy

A vulgar sexual slang term for sexual intercourse with a female, especially in the phrase “get some pussy.” It can also refer to the female genitalia, meaning the vulva or vagina.

Pussy bandit

A vulgar slang term for a man who seduces many women, especially when those sexual relationships are considered illicit because he is already committed to another relationship.

Pussy pounding

Vulgar sexual slang for vaginal intercourse, especially sex described as rough or forceful. It can also refer to a specific instance of that activity.

Pussyless

A vulgar slang adjective meaning without a pussy, or without sexual intercourse with a woman, depending on context.

Queefing

Queefing is the release or sound of trapped air from the vagina, often during or after sexual intercourse or exercise. The word is informal and vulgar.

Queenie

A colloquial term for an effeminate man or a male homosexual, especially when used as a form of address.

Queening stool

A queening stool is a low seat with an opening that allows a dominant partner to sit above and receive oral sex from a submissive partner lying underneath.

Queeny

An informal slang adjective meaning like a queen or queenly; it can also describe an effeminate homosexual man or something associated with that presentation.

Queer

Queer is a reclaimed identity term used by some people whose sexual orientation and/or gender identity is not exclusively heterosexual or cisgender; not everyone is comfortable with the term.

Queer as a clockwork orange

An adjective describing something as unusually camp or conspicuously homosexual; it can also suggest that something is strange or unusual.

Queer as a coot

A UK informal adjective describing someone or something as ostentatiously homosexual.

Queercore

Queercore is a subculture that emerged from the 1980s punk movement, associated with young, rebellious homosexuals. The term also refers to the aggressive rock music associated with that subculture.

Queerification

Queerification is the process of making or becoming queer by moving away from mainstream expectations about sexual identity or behavior.

Queerify

To make queer, or to cause someone or something to depart from mainstream sexual identity or behaviour.

Queerization

Queerization is the process of making something queer, including in relation to homosexuality or transgender identity.

Queerize

Queerize is a transitive verb meaning to make queer, including homosexual or transgender, or to queer something. It can also describe applying this transformation to spaces, disciplines, or heterocentrist structures of power and knowledge.

Queerlord

A derogatory and offensive term for a homosexual person.

Queerness

Queerness is the quality of being queer in the sense of not conforming to sexual or gender norms.

Queerosexual

A derogatory, vulgar slang term for a homosexual person.

Queerplatonic

Queerplatonic describes a relationship that is not romantic and usually not sexual, but has a stronger emotional bond than a typical friendship.

Questioning

Questioning describes someone who is exploring or considering their sexual orientation and/or gender identity.

Raceplay

Raceplay is sexual roleplay involving racially charged situations or racialized power dynamics, including interracial master–slave scenarios.

RACK

RACK stands for Risk-Aware Consensual Kink, a BDSM framework emphasizing informed awareness of risk and consent.

Raincoater

A slang term for a pornography fan who prefers films with abundant sex and little plot or character development; it can also refer to someone who prefers pornography featuring rough, degrading, or violent treatment of women.

Ram

To make a forceful thrust during sexual intercourse.

Rapebian

A derogatory noun for a transfeminine lesbian portrayed as sexually aggressive or predatory.

Rapetoy

A sexual slang term for a submissive partner portrayed as willing to be used indiscriminately by others.

Ravage

In sexual slang, ravage means to have vigorous sexual intercourse. It also has a separate slang sense meaning to rape.

Ravish

As a verb, “ravish” can mean to have vigorous sexual intercourse. In dated usage, it can also mean to rape.

Reality pornography

Reality pornography is a genre of pornography built around staged sexual encounters filmed in a cinéma vérité style.

Red

In BDSM and sexual contexts, “red” is a stop signal indicating that the speaker wants current sexual activity to stop immediately.

Relation

Relation can refer to the act of sexual intercourse.

Relationship

A romantic or sexual involvement between people.

Relationship Anarchy

Relationship anarchy is an approach to relationships that rejects predetermined hierarchies and rules in favor of agreements created by the people involved.

Relationshipper

A relationshipper is a person who supports a romantic or sexual relationship between fictional characters or real people. The slang is especially associated with fans focused on a particular pairing.

Relationshopping

Relationshopping is the practice of seeking romantic or sexual partners by comparing them against a preferred shortlist of attributes, much like selecting a product while shopping.

Repfuel

Repfuel is a derogatory noun for something that provokes a transgender person to repress their gender identity or its expression.

Repper

A derogatory slang term for a person who has realised they are transgender but refuses to accept it or begin gender transition.

Retifism

Retifism is a sexual fetish involving attraction to shoes.

Reverse gangbang

A sexual scenario involving more than two women and one man as the central participant. As a verb, “reverse gangbang” means to take part in this kind of sexual activity.

Rice king

A derogatory term for a non-Asian man, usually a white man, who has a sexual fetish for Asian women.

Ride

A colloquial term for an act of sexual intercourse.

Ride rantipole

A vulgar verb meaning to have sexual intercourse with the woman on top of the man.

Rigger

Rigger is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Ristellid

A ristellid is a skink belonging to the family Ristellidae.

Roger

A vulgar UK slang term meaning to have sexual intercourse, especially when describing a man having sex with someone; it can also mean an act of sexual intercourse.

Rogering

A vulgar UK and Irish slang noun for sexual intercourse, especially when described as rough.

Roll around

“Roll around” is colloquial sexual slang meaning to have sexual intercourse with someone, usually in the phrasing “roll around with” a person.

Romantic friendship

An intensely emotional relationship between two people that involves love, physical affection, or emotional communication beyond what is typical in friendship, while sexual activity is usually absent or unimportant.

Roommate

In a humorous or ironic sexuality-related use, “roommate” refers to a same-sex significant other with whom someone lives—a coinhabitant in a non-heterosexual relationship.

Root

In sexual slang, root means to have sexual intercourse or to engage in an act of sexual intercourse.

Rope Bunny

Rope Bunny is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Rubberism

Rubberism is a fetishistic interest in rubber or rubberwear.

Rubberist

A rubberist is someone with a fetish for rubber or rubberwear. The word can also function as an adjective describing something related to a rubberist or rubberism.

Rubberwear

Rubberwear is fetishwear made of rubber.

Rump-ranging

Informal slang for anal sex between men, or for a man associated with male-male anal sex. It can function as either a noun or an adjective.

Rumpo

Rumpo is a colloquial, humorous noun for sexual intercourse. It is an uncountable term.

Run after

To run after someone is to make a determined effort to win their affection or pursue a sexual relationship with them.

Run up in

“Run up in” is vulgar slang meaning to have sexual intercourse with someone, especially in a non-romantic way.

Saddle up

As sexual slang, “saddle up” means to engage in sexual intercourse. It is an uncommon verb phrase and can also refer literally to preparing a horse and saddle for riding.

Sadomasochism

Sadomasochism is the sexual enjoyment of both inflicting and receiving pain. The word can also refer collectively to consensual sadistic and masochistic practices within BDSM.

Safer Sex

Safer sex refers to practices intended to reduce, rather than eliminate, risks associated with sexual activity, including sexually transmitted infections and unintended pregnancy.

Safeword

A safeword is a previously agreed word or signal used to clearly communicate that a BDSM or sexual activity should pause, change intensity, or stop.

Salirophilia

A sexual fetish in which the active partner enjoys making a mess of someone whose appearance was previously neat and tidy.

Same day lay

A vulgar slang term for having sexual intercourse with a woman after cold-approaching her earlier that same day.

Same-gender

Same-gender describes people, relationships, or sexual behavior involving people of the same gender, particularly homosexual or bisexual men or women.

Same-gender-loving

Same-gender-loving describes homosexual attraction, relationships, or people, particularly in African American communities.

Same-sex

In sexuality and relationship language, same-sex describes something involving, relating to, or occurring between homosexual men or women. It appears in phrases such as “same-sex marriage.”

Same-sexer

A nonstandard noun for a person who is attracted to, or has sexual relations with, people of the same sex; homosexual.

Same-sexness

Same-sexness is a noun referring to homosexuality, or the condition of being or having the same sex.

Same-sexuality

Same-sexuality is sexuality or sexual activity involving people of the same sex; it refers to homosexuality.

Sand skink

A sand skink is a skink associated with sandy habitats. The name can refer to the ocellated skink (Chalcides ocellatus), found in southern Europe, or Plestiodon reynoldsi, a lizard endemic to Florida.

Sandfish

Sandfish is a name for several fish and other animals associated with sandy environments, including the sandfish skink, a lizard that burrows and swims through sand.

Sandfish skink

Sandfish skink is the common name for Scincus scincus, a skink known for burrowing into sand. It is not a sexuality, dating, relationship, kink, or BDSM term.

Sapphism

Sapphism is a noun referring to female homosexuality, or lesbianism.

Sapphite

A sapphite is a homosexual woman.

Sard

Sard is a verb meaning to have sexual intercourse with a woman.

Satori

Satori is a mutant gene in Drosophila, the genus that includes fruit flies, associated with homosexual behaviour in males—specifically, courtship directed toward other males.

Save

In sexuality and relationship language, “save” means to refrain from romantic relationships—or, especially in later use, sexual relationships—until marriage or until being with a suitable partner.

Schlong

Schlong is vulgar slang for engaging in sexual intercourse. As a noun, it refers to a penis, especially a long one.

Scincid

A scincid is a member of the Scincidae family of reptiles, commonly known as skinks.

Scincoid

Scincoid describes something related to the family Scincidae, or skinks. As a dated noun, it can also mean a skink.

Screamer

A slang term for an effeminate gay man or a man perceived as obviously homosexual.

Screw

A crude, informal slang term for sexual intercourse, used as both a noun and a verb.

Screwable

Screwable is vulgar sexual slang describing someone or something considered suitable or desirable for sexual intercourse.

Screwing

A vulgar slang term for sexual intercourse; also the present participle and gerund form of “screw” in this sense.

Scullyslash

Scullyslash is fan fiction featuring Dana Scully from *The X-Files* in a romantic and/or sexual relationship with another woman.

Second virginity

Second virginity is the act of reclaiming a virgin identity after previously having sexual intercourse, often as a commitment to sexual purity until marriage.

Seduction

Seduction is the act of attracting or persuading someone into sexual involvement, typically through physical attraction, desire, or deliberate attempts to influence them. In a historical legal sense, the word also referred to a felony involving a man inducing a previously chaste unmarried woman to have sexual intercourse by promising marriage.

Seeing to

An informal noun phrase referring to an act of sexual intercourse, often used in expressions such as “a seeing-to.”

Self-facial

Self-facial is a sexual slang term for ejaculating onto one's own face.

Self-rape

“Self-rape” refers to submission to an unwanted sexual act. It can also describe rape in which the rapist identifies with, or is the same person as, the victim. In some derogatory usage, it refers to masturbation, including masturbation without self-love.

Seme

Seme refers to an active or dominant male partner in a same-sex relationship; in sexual slang, it is broadly equivalent to “top.”

Semi-single

Semi-single describes someone who is more or less single but is not in a serious, long-term romantic or sexual relationship.

Semibisexual

Semibisexual describes someone who identifies as bisexual but is attracted to only one gender. In another definition, it describes sexual attraction to two genders alongside romantic feelings for only one.

Semibisexuality

Semibisexuality is the state of identifying as bisexual while being attracted to only one gender.

Semicloseted

Semicloseted describes someone who is partially open about their sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or gender identity.

Semivirgin

Semivirgin is a colloquial adjective for someone who has had a sexual experience but has not had sexual intercourse; it can also describe someone as almost a virgin.

Sensation Play

Sensation Play is a kink or fetish-related term used to describe an interest, fantasy, activity, sensation, object, or style of erotic play. Individual interests and boundaries can vary widely.

Service Top

Service Top is a role-related term used in sexual, kink, or BDSM contexts. Role labels can describe preferences or dynamics but do not define a person's complete interests or boundaries.

Sesbian lex

“Sesbian lex” is an internet slang phrase formed by a spoonerism of “lesbian sex.”

Sewing circle

A discreet code for lesbian or bisexual actresses in Hollywood during the industry’s golden age.

Sex addict

A sex addict is a person described as being addicted to watching or taking part in sexual activity, particularly sexual intercourse.

Sex dungeon

A sex dungeon is a dungeon-like space designed and equipped for BDSM sexual activities.

Sex education

Sex education is instruction about human sexual anatomy, reproduction, intercourse, and other sexual behavior.

Sex flush

Sex flush is the flushed appearance, redness, or blush that can appear after sex or orgasm. It is also called an afterglow.

Sex hair

“Sex hair” is colloquial, uncountable slang for bed hair resulting from sexual intercourse.

Sex pillow

A sex pillow is a pillow designed to facilitate or enhance sexual intercourse.

Sex position

A sex position is a physical arrangement or posture used during sexual intercourse.

Sex shop

A sex shop is a retail store that sells sexual products such as sex toys, erotic lingerie, and pornography.

Sex-hunger

Sex-hunger is an intense desire for sexual intercourse.

Sex-negative

Sex-negative describes an attitude, policy, or sexual climate that views sexuality negatively and seeks to restrict or control sexual desire, including by opposing sex work, pornography, or kinky and otherwise unconventional sex.

Sex-positive

Sex-positive describes an approach that regards sexual activity as potentially beneficial and healthy while supporting personal autonomy and rights in matters of sex. It can include acceptance of consensual kinky sex, queer sex, and sex work.

Sexathon

Sexathon is an informal noun for a prolonged session of sexual intercourse.

Sexbot

A sexbot is a robot designed for sexual intercourse with humans. The word can also refer to a lifelike robotic love doll that simulates human movement and intelligence, or to a chatbot used for erotic roleplay.

Sexfest

A sexfest is an informal term for an event involving a great deal of sexual intercourse.

Sexfight

Sexfight is an erotic fetish involving a physical competition in which participants try to bring one another to orgasm. As a verb, to sexfight means to take part in this kind of competition.

Sexmobile

A sexmobile is a vehicle in which people have sexual intercourse. The slang noun refers to the vehicle itself, rather than to a particular sexual act.

Sexship

A sexship is a relationship based purely on sex, with the connection centered on temporary physical gratification rather than a long-term committed relationship.

Sexsurfing

Sexsurfing is an informal, uncommon term for sexual intercourse between a couch-surfing guest and their host.

Sextracurricular

A humorous adjective describing sexual activity outside a personal relationship.

Sexual

Relating to sexual attraction, sexuality, sexual feelings, behavior, intercourse, or other intimate physical contact. In discussions of sexual orientation, sexual can describe someone who experiences sexual attraction, in contrast with asexual.

Sexual Arousal

Sexual arousal is a state of sexual excitement that can involve subjective feelings, physical responses, or both.

Sexual Attraction

Sexual attraction is an experience of being drawn to another person in a sexual way.

Sexual complex

A psychological complex involving fixations of a sexual nature; a fetish.

Sexual Desire

Sexual desire is the desire or urge for sexual activity.

Sexual Fantasy

A sexual fantasy is an imagined scenario, thought, or mental image that a person experiences as sexual or erotic.

Sexual favour

A sexual act performed by one person for another, usually outside a romantic relationship.

Sexual identity

Sexual identity is a person’s understanding of themselves in relation to the people they are romantically or sexually attracted to, including their identified sexual orientation.

Sexual inversion

A historical term for homosexuality, based on a late-19th- and early-20th-century theory that treated same-sex attraction as an inborn reversal of gender traits.

Sexual matters

Sexual matters are topics or concerns related to sexual intercourse or sexual relations, especially when discussed in conversation or writing.

Sexual Orientation

Sexual orientation describes a person's enduring pattern of romantic, emotional, and/or physical attraction to others.

Sexual Response Cycle

The sexual response cycle is a framework describing stages of human response to sexual stimulation.

Sexual union

Sexual union is a formal or euphemistic term for sexual intercourse.

Sexuale

In zoology, a sexuale is a bisexual aphid.

Sexually

Sexually is an adverb describing something done in an erotic or sexual manner, especially in relation to sexual intercourse.

Sexx0r

Sexx0r is an Internet and leet spelling for sexual intercourse. It can function as a noun or as a verb meaning to engage in sexual intercourse.

Sexy time

“Sexy time” is humorous slang for time spent on sexual activity, or, by extension, sexual intercourse.

Sexy times

“Sexy times” is informal slang for time spent engaging in sexual activity, and can also refer specifically to sexual intercourse.

Shaboink

Shaboink is a humorous, informal verb meaning to have sexual intercourse with someone. In some usage, it can refer more broadly to sexual contact or activity, including oral sex.

Shadow daddy

A sexually attractive, brooding, and intimidating man—often morally gray—who has powers connected with shadows or darkness.

Shaft

“Shaft” is slang for an act of sexual intercourse. It can be used as a noun or as a transitive verb.

Shagfest

Shagfest is slang for an event or encounter involving a large amount of sexual intercourse.

Shagger

A slang noun for a person who has sexual intercourse.

Shagger's back

Shagger’s back is a humorous slang term for back pain or a bad back, jokingly attributed to having too much sex.

Shagging

Shagging is a vulgar British slang term for sexual intercourse, used as a noun or as the present participle and gerund of “shag.”

Shagless

Shagless is a UK slang adjective describing a person or period without sexual intercourse.

Shagtastic

A UK slang adjective meaning brilliant or excellent, with an implication of sexual intercourse.

Shingleback

A shingleback is a species of blue-tongued skink, Tiliqua rugosa, with a short, broad tail that resembles its head and may confuse predators.

Shink

Shink is not identified here as a sexuality, dating, relationship, LGBTQ+, kink, fetish, or BDSM term. In general usage, it means to pour or serve wine or beer, and it can also describe the sound or movement of sliding metal, especially a blade.

Shipper

A shipper is a person who supports a romantic or sexual relationship between fictional characters or real people.

Shipping

In fandom, shipping is the desire for two or more real people or fictional characters to be in a romantic or sexual relationship. As a verb, to ship people or characters means to support or want that relationship.

Shirtlifting

A derogatory slang adjective, used in Australia and the UK to describe a man as effeminately homosexual.

Shit packer

A vulgar, derogatory slang term for a male homosexual.

Shit-stabber

An offensive, vulgar slang term for a homosexual man.

Shitslut

A vulgar, derogatory term for a person—especially a submissive person—with a sexual interest in excrement; also used as an insult.

Shoeplay

Shoeplay is the erotic use of a foot to play with a shoe, such as lifting or dangling it. The term is associated with a shoe fetish.

Shoujo ai

Shoujo ai is a term for anime, manga, or hentai centered on romantic or erotic relationships between women. It can also refer to stories focused on emotional, largely platonic homoerotic relationships between women, and is associated with yuri.

Shounen ai

Shounen ai is a fictional narrative or visual work centered on a romantic or sexual relationship between two or more males.

Show someone one's etchings

“Show someone one’s etchings” is a clichéd idiom used as an innuendo for inviting someone to a private place to have sex.

Similisexual

Similisexual is an adjective meaning homosexual.

Sisexual bex

“Sisexual bex” is an Internet noun referring to the spoonerism of “bisexual sex.”

Sismance

An informal noun for a close, non-sexual relationship between two women.

Sissy hypno

Sissy hypno is a genre of erotic media that presents itself as hypnotically persuading a male consumer to feminize himself.

Sissyfication

Sissyfication is a BDSM practice or scenario in which a submissive is forced to take on a feminine role as a “sissy.” The word is informal and derogatory.

Sistagirl

Sistagirl is an informal term used in Tiwi Islands culture for a gay or transgender person, particularly a transgender Aboriginal person. The traditional Tiwi term is yimpininni.

Situationship

A situationship is a romantic or sexual relationship that has not been clearly defined by the people involved, often leaving commitment, exclusivity, or expectations uncertain.

Size matters

“Size matters” is a humorous phrase expressing the opinion that people prefer sexual partners with larger penises, or that penis size affects the quality of intercourse.

Skinked

The simple past and past participle form of the verb “skink.”

Skinking

Skinking is the present participle and gerund form of “skink.”

Skirt

In UK colloquial slang, “skirt” refers to sexual intercourse with a woman. The term is derogatory and may also refer figuratively to women collectively in a sexual context.

Slap bellies

“Slap bellies” is vulgar slang meaning to have sexual intercourse.

Slash fiction

Slash fiction is a genre of fan fiction about romantic and/or sexual relationships between characters of the same sex, typically male characters. A single story in this genre can also be called a slash fiction.

Slave

Slave is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Slave-girl

In BDSM, a slave-girl is a young female submissive partner who takes on a slave role within a BDSM relationship.

Slaveboy

In BDSM, a slaveboy is a young male submissive partner in a BDSM relationship who occupies a slave role.

Slider

No sexuality-specific meaning is identified for “slider” in the available definitions.

Slump

A slump is a period when someone has less sex or dating than they expected or usually experience.

Slutfucker

A vulgar, contemptuous insult for a person who has sexual intercourse with people described as “sluts.”

Small penis humiliation

Small penis humiliation is a sexual fetish or kink involving the belittling or demeaning of a man’s penis size, potentially for the arousal of either participant.

Smalldom

Smalldom is a BDSM or sexual dynamic in which a shorter or smaller partner dominates a taller or larger partner. It can also refer to the shorter or smaller dominant partner.

Smash

Smash is an informal sexual or dating term. Slang meanings can shift by community, platform, region, and time, so context matters.

Smashing

An informal, vulgar term for an act of sexual intercourse.

Smashpad

A slang, vulgar term for a place used for casual sex.

Smoxploitation

Smoxploitation is a genre of fetish films focused on a person smoking a cigarette.

Sneezefic

A piece of fan fiction centered on sneezing, usually in a fetishized context.

Snow bunny

A derogatory slang term for a white woman who pursues sexual relationships with Black men.

Snow skink

A snow skink is any skink in the taxonomic genus Carinascincus, endemic to south-eastern Australia, including Tasmania and Victoria.

Snu snu

A humorous slang term for rough sexual intercourse with a tall or muscular woman.

Sociosexuality

Sociosexuality refers to a person’s predisposition to engage in sexual activity outside a committed relationship. The term can also describe the sociological aspects of sexuality.

Socratic love

Socratic love is an archaic term for male homosexuality or pederasty.

Soft Launch

A soft launch is an indirect or partial reveal of a romantic relationship, often through social media posts that hint at a partner without clearly identifying them.

Soft swap

Soft swap is a swinging practice in which couples exchange partners without having full sexual intercourse. The term can also refer to couples having sex in the same room without exchanging partners.

Softcore

Softcore refers to pornography that does not depict explicit sexual penetration. The word can function as an adjective or as a noun for this type of pornography.

Softcore pornography

Softcore pornography is sexually explicit media that depicts sexual themes or activity in a relatively non-graphic way.

Solo Polyamory

Solo polyamory is a form of polyamory in which a person has multiple intimate relationships while maintaining an independent lifestyle rather than combining households or finances with partners.

Somnophilia

Somnophilia is sexual arousal involving a person who is asleep or unconscious, including sexual activity with a partner who is asleep or nearly asleep.

Southern litter skink

Southern litter skink is the common name for Caledoniscincus notialis, a species of skink lizard. It is not a sexuality, dating, relationship, LGBTQ+, kink, fetish, or BDSM term.

Spanko

A person with a fetish for spanking, usually but not exclusively in a sexual context.

Spend

In sexual slang, spend means to have an orgasm or to ejaculate.

Sphincter boy

A derogatory, vulgar slang term for a gay man; it can also insult a man by calling him contemptible or an asshole.

Spintrian

An adjective describing sex or fornication involving three or more people, especially when the participants include a homosexual pairing.

Sport-fucking

Sport-fucking is slang for having sexual intercourse for its own sake, without seeking commitment or emotional depth. The term is vulgar and usually frames sex as a recreational activity rather than an emotionally intimate relationship.

Squeezer

In sexual slang, a squeezer is a hand job, an act of male masturbation, or manual sexual stimulation performed on a man.

Squish

A squish is a non-romantic, generally non-sexual infatuation with someone you are not dating, or the person who inspires that feeling. It is also called a platonic crush.

SSC

SSC is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Stallionize

A verb meaning to behave like a stallion, especially by engaging in sexual intercourse. It can also mean to make someone or something more virile or manly.

Steamer

A slang term for a homosexual man who prefers passive partners.

Stick

An informal slang verb meaning to have sexual intercourse.

Straight

In a sexual context, straight describes something related to conventional sexual intercourse.

Straight as a circle

A humorous phrase meaning gay or homosexual. Although it uses the word “straight,” the phrase reverses that expected meaning.

Straight as an arrow

“Straight as an arrow” describes someone as completely heterosexual, with no homosexual desires or thoughts.

Straight-acting

Describing a person or presentation that has the appearance or mannerisms stereotypically associated with a heterosexual person of the same gender, rather than those stereotypically associated with gay men or lesbians.

Straightwash

To interpret or present a queer person, relationship, or situation as exclusively heterosexual.

Straightwashing

Straightwashing is the act of removing or omitting nonstraight sexual orientations from an account of a person, relationship, or situation.

Strange

In relationship or dating contexts, “strange” describes someone or something outside a person’s current relationship, or something unfamiliar to them.

Stray

In BDSM, particularly petplay, a stray is a submissive who has not committed to submitting to a particular dominant.

Stroke

In sexual usage, a stroke is a thrusting movement of the penis during sexual intercourse.

Stuffing

“Stuffing” is vulgar internet slang for an act of penetrative sexual intercourse.

Sub Drop

Sub Drop is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Subby

In BDSM slang, subby describes someone or something associated with a submissive role. It is an informal alternative form of “subbie.”

Subdrop

Subdrop is a period of low spirits experienced by a submissive after BDSM play.

Succubation

Succubation is sexual intercourse with a succubus, a female demon in folklore.

Sugar

Regional slang for an effeminate male, often with an implication that he is homosexual.

Sugar in one's tank

“Sugar in one’s tank” is an old slang expression referring to latent or secret homosexuality, or to perceived effeminacy in a man.

Superfecundation

Superfecundation is the fertilisation of two or more ova by sperm from separate acts of sexual intercourse. It can result in twins who have different biological fathers.

Superfuck

A remarkable session of sexual intercourse.

Supermonogamy

The ideal that a person should or will have only one sexual or romantic partner throughout their lifetime.

SWERF

SWERF stands for “sex worker-exclusionary radical feminist.” It refers to a feminist who opposes the sex industry, particularly the production and distribution of pornography, typically viewing it as coercive or abusive toward the women involved.

Swirl

Swirl refers to interracial mingling, including interracial dating, sex, or marriage. As a verb, it can mean to mingle interracially; this usage is dated.

Swish

A slang term for an effeminate male homosexual; it can also describe someone or something as effeminate, attractive, stylish, sophisticated, or fashionable.

Switch

Switch is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Switch-hitting

Slang describing bisexuality or someone who is bisexual.

Switchable

In BDSM, switchable describes someone who can take either a dominant or a submissive role.

Table-ender

A UK slang term for an act of sexual intercourse performed on or against a table.

Take it

In sexual slang, “take it” means to submit to passive sexual intercourse.

Tang

A vulgar sexual slang term referring to sexual intercourse with a woman.

Tap

As sexual slang, “tap” means to have sexual intercourse with someone.

Tbulge

Tbulge is a noun for the visible outline of a transgender person’s genitals through clothing.

Teamcest

Teamcest is slang for a sexual or romantic relationship between teammates.

Technofetish

A fetish centered on technology, including technological spaces such as cyberspace.

Technosexual

Technosexual describes sexual attraction to or a sexual fetish involving machines, robots, computers, or androids. It can also describe sexuality expressed through technology or technological media.

TEHM

TEHM is a derogatory term for a trans-exclusionary homosexual male: a gay man who holds gender-critical or anti-transgender views, particularly the view that trans men are women.

Temple prostitution

Temple prostitution refers to sexual intercourse performed as part of religious worship.

Tentadick

A vulgar noun for a fictional or fantasy genital shaped like an octopus or squid tentacle.

Tervert

A derogatory slang noun for a gender-critical feminist or anti-transgender advocate who is portrayed as having an unhealthy fixation on transgender people’s genitals.

Textual

In sexuality and dating slang, textual describes sexual or intimate communication through text messages, as in “textual harassment” or “textual intercourse.” It is related to sexting.

TG girl

“TG girl” is slang for a trans woman—a transgender woman or male-to-female transsexual person.

Thighing

Thighing is masturbation involving rubbing oneself against or between another person’s thighs. It can also refer to frottage or intercrural sex.

Third gender

A gender category recognized in some societies as neither male nor female, within systems that recognize three or more genders.

Throes of passion

“Throes of passion” is a euphemistic phrase for sexual intercourse.

Throuple

A throuple is a romantic or sexual relationship involving three people.

Tiger

In sexual slang, a tiger is a person who is very athletic during sexual intercourse.

Tinkerbell

Tinkerbell is a derogatory and offensive slang term for a homosexual or effeminate man.

TNG

In BDSM, TNG refers to younger practitioners, typically people under approximately 35, or to a social group for younger members of the BDSM community.

Toe-tapper

“Toe-tapper” is an informal, possibly derogatory term for a homosexual person who is closeted about their sexual orientation, especially one who solicits gay sex.

Toonophilia

Toonophilia is sexual and/or romantic attraction to cartoon or anime characters.

Top from the bottom

In BDSM, to top from the bottom is to make demands while supposedly occupying a submissive role.

Torture

In a BDSM or sexual context, torture refers to activity involving the infliction of pain to a particular body part or in a particular manner. Outside sexuality, the word refers to severe pain or anguish, or to deliberately inflicting it as punishment or during interrogation.

Touch

As sexual slang, “touch” can mean to have sexual intercourse with someone. In ordinary use, it means making physical contact with a person or thing.

Touch-me-not

A queer person, typically a lesbian, who does not want to receive sexual pleasure.

Toybob

Toybob is a breed of small, compact cats distinguished by short, kinked tails.

Trannoid

A derogatory and offensive internet term for a transgender person.

Trans

Trans describes a person or identity that is not cisgender. It is an umbrella term that can include transgender, transsexual, genderqueer, nonbinary, genderfluid, and third-gender identities.

Trans community

The trans community is the community of transgender and transsexual people.

Trans man

A trans man is a man who was assigned female at birth and has a male or primarily male gender identity.

Trans panic defense

The trans panic defense is a claim of self-defense against an unwanted sexual advance by a transgender person.

Trans person

A trans person is a transgender or transsexual person.

Trans woman

A trans woman is a transgender or transsexual woman who was assigned male at birth and has a female or primarily female gender identity.

Trans-erasure

Trans-erasure is the ignoring, denial, or minimization of transgender people or transness. It is an uncountable noun used in discussions of representation, reporting, and legislation.

Transbian

An informal term for a trans lesbian.

Transexy

An informal adjective describing something as both transgender and sexy.

Transfan

An informal term for someone who is attracted to transgender or transsexual people.

Transgender

Transgender describes people whose gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth.

Transgenderal

Transgenderal is a dated, uncommon term used as an adjective for a person whose gender differs from their assigned sex, or as a noun for a transgender person. It has also been used for someone expressing a different gender role.

Transgendered

“Transgendered” is a nonstandard, often offensive form of “transgender,” referring to a person whose gender identity does not correspond with their sex assigned at birth. “Transgender” is the usual form.

Transgenderism

Transgenderism is a derogatory and offensive noun used to portray transgender identities, activism, or rights movements as an ideology. In a dated sense, it can also refer to being transgender.

Transhet

Transhet describes a transgender person who is heterosexual, or an identity that is both transgender and heterosexual.

Transness

Transness is the condition or quality of being transgender or transsexual. It is an uncountable noun used to refer to someone’s trans identity or experience as trans.

Transnormativity

Transnormativity is either the normalization and visibility of diverse transgender experiences or the pressure for transgender people to conform to a cissexist idea of what is “normal.”

Transparent

A nonstandard noun for a transgender or transsexual parent.

Transphile

Transphile is a noun or adjective for a person who feels attraction toward transgender people or has a positive attitude toward transness. The term is rare and marked as derogatory.

Transphilia

Transphilia is sexual attraction to transgender or transsexual people.

Transphobe

A transphobe is a person who expresses fear, hatred, or prejudice toward transgender, transsexual, or gender-nonconforming people.

Transphobia

Transphobia is hatred, fear, or prejudice directed at transgender and transsexual people, or at transness more broadly. It can also appear as prejudice against people who do not conform to social gender roles.

Transploitation

Transploitation is the exploitation of transgender or transsexual people in media, especially film and television. The noun can also label a film or other work associated with that genre, including cases where creators reclaim the term.

Transromantic

Transromantic describes romantic attraction to people of varied or ambiguous genders, including transgender people.

Transsex

Transsex refers to transsexuality or transsexualism—the state of being transsexual. It is also used as a verb for undergoing, or causing, a change from one sex or gender to another, especially through sex reassignment surgery.

Transvestic fetishism

A paraphilia involving recurrent, intense sexual urges, arousal, or orgasm associated with actual or fantasized cross-dressing, occurring in some males.

Tray

Tray is an Australian slang term for a gay transgender person, particularly a transgender man who is gay.

Tribade

A tribade is a woman who engages in sexual activity with another woman; the word can also refer to a lesbian.

Tribbing

Tribbing is a sexual practice involving vulva-to-vulva contact with the partners’ legs intertwined. The word is used as both a noun and a verb.

Trichophilia

Trichophilia is a sexual interest in human hair, including strong fondness for or arousal from hair.

Trim

Sexual slang for sexual intercourse with a woman.

Trimonoecious

Trimonoecious describes a plant whose individual flowers include male, female, and bisexual (hermaphroditic or perfect) types.

Troid

An offensive, derogatory internet slang term for a transgender person.

Troon

An offensive internet slur for a transgender person, especially a trans woman. It is also used as a derogatory verb for undergoing gender transition or causing someone to undergo gender transition.

Trooncel

A derogatory and offensive slang term for a transgender person described as an incel.

Trooner

An offensive, derogatory internet term for a transgender person.

Troonism

A derogatory internet term that portrays transgender identities or related ideas as an ideology, rather than using neutral language to describe transgender people or experiences.

Truck

Truck is an archaic or dialectal noun meaning social intercourse, dealings, or relationships. In this sense, it refers to interaction or association between people rather than a vehicle.

Try it on

A colloquial phrase meaning to try to start a sexual relationship with someone.

Tumble

A UK informal slang term for an act of sexual intercourse.

Turd burglar

A vulgar, derogatory slang term for a gay man. It is a homophobic insult rather than a neutral description of sexual orientation.

Twink

Twink is gay and queer slang commonly used for a young or youthful-looking, relatively slim man, often with little body or facial hair. It is a social and cultural label rather than a precise physical category.

Two-spirit

Two-Spirit describes a Native North American person associated with a traditional tribal third-gender, fourth-gender, or transgender cultural category, sometimes involving a ceremonial role. The term can also refer to a person described as bisexual, homosexual, or gender-variant within that cultural context.

U-Haul lesbian

A “U-Haul lesbian” is a lesbian in a relationship that progresses very quickly, such as moving in together after only a short time. The slang is sometimes used in a derogatory way.

U-Haul syndrome

U-Haul syndrome is slang for the tendency, associated with lesbian relationships, for a couple to progress very quickly—for example, moving in together after only a short time.

Uke

Uke is a term for a passive or submissive male fictional character in a same-sex relationship, especially one portrayed as the bottom.

Unclockable

Unclockable describes someone whose homosexuality is not detectable, or someone who is not recognizable as transgender or a drag performer and is therefore passing.

Underage

Underage describes a person or activity involving someone below the legal age required for a particular activity, including sexual intercourse. It can also describe someone who is not yet a legal adult and is still a minor.

Unf

“Unf” is an inarticulate sound expressing sexual desire on seeing someone attractive, or a grunt of pleasure during sexual intercourse.

Unfetishized

Not fetishized; not presented or treated as a fetish object.

Unfuckably

In a way that precludes sexual intercourse; a vulgar, emphatic adverb describing someone or something as sexually unavailable or undesirable.

Ungay

Ungay describes something as not homosexual, or not gay. As a transitive verb, it means to make something not gay or less gay. The adjective is also recorded in a dated sense meaning not cheerful or merry.

Unhumped

Having had no sexual intercourse.

Unicorn

In dating and non-monogamy, a unicorn is a person who joins an existing couple for sex, dating, or a relationship, often as a third partner.

Unicorn hunter

A unicorn hunter is someone who seeks a “unicorn”: a bisexual woman willing to participate in swinging or polyamory with them. The term is derogatory and can imply that the person harasses women who are not interested.

Unkink

Unkink is a transitive verb meaning to remove kinks from something.

Unkinkable

Unkinkable describes something that cannot form kinks, such as a cord or cable.

Unkinked

Unkinked is the simple past and past participle of “unkink.” As an adjective, it means not kinked.

Unkinking

Unkinking is the present participle and gerund form of the verb “unkink.”

Unkinks

“Unkinks” is the third-person singular simple present indicative form of the verb “unkink.”

Unkinky

In sexual contexts, “unkinky” describes sex or sexual activity that is not kinky.

Unlaid

Unlaid describes someone or something that has not had sexual intercourse. In sexual slang, it can refer to a person who has not had sex.

Unorgasmic

Unorgasmic describes something as not involving orgasm; it can also mean sexless or dull.

Unshagged

A UK slang adjective describing a person who has not had sexual intercourse.

Uphill gardener

A UK slang term for a homosexual man. It is derogatory and can be offensive.

Uranistic

Uranistic is an adjective describing something as homosexual.

Urning

A homosexual person, especially a man.

Urningism

Urningism is homosexuality, especially homosexuality among males.

Urophilia

Urophilia, also called undinism, is a sexual fetish or dependency involving the smell or taste of urine, or the sight or sound of someone urinating.

Ursusagalmatophilia

Ursusagalmatophilia is sexual or romantic attraction to teddy bears, including a fetish or paraphilia involving stuffed animal bears.

Usable

In a sexuality-related sense, “usable” describes something homosexual.

Vac bed

A vac bed is a BDSM device that creates a vacuum inside a latex envelope, enclosing the person inside for sexual use.

Vacationship

A sexual relationship formed during a vacation that has no ongoing attachment and ends when the vacation is over.

Vaginal Sex

Sex in which a penis enters a vagina; also called vaginal intercourse or penis-in-vagina sex.

Vanilla

Vanilla is a term used in BDSM or consensual power-exchange contexts. Its practical meaning depends on negotiated roles, boundaries, risks, and agreements.

Vee

A vee is a polyamorous relationship involving three people, where one person has two partners who are not romantically or sexually involved with each other.

Vegansexual

Vegansexual describes a person who chooses to have sex or pursue sexual relationships only with other vegans.

Vegansexuality

Vegansexuality is the practice of having sex or pursuing sexual relationships only with other vegans.

Verbal humiliation

Verbal humiliation is a form of erotic humiliation carried out through words, associated with BDSM and sexuality.

Vers

Vers is short for “versatile.” In gay and queer sexual slang, it commonly describes someone who is comfortable taking either the top or bottom role in anal sex rather than identifying exclusively with one role.

Versatile

In sexuality and BDSM, versatile describes someone who can take either a dominant or submissive role. In anal-sex terminology, it can also mean willing to take either a penetrative or receptive role.

Vibrator

A vibrator is a device that produces vibration and is used to stimulate the genitals or other sensitive areas during masturbation or partnered sexual activity.

Virgin

A virgin is a person who has never had sexual intercourse. The word can also describe someone who has never engaged in any sexual activity at all.

Virginity pledge

A promise made by a young adult to refrain from sexual intercourse until marriage.

Virgo intacta

A woman who has never had sexual intercourse; the phrase can also refer to a girl or woman whose hymen remains unbroken.

Voice verify

To confirm one’s identity, sex, or status as a human rather than a bot by providing a voice sample, often by telephone or during online dating.

Vorarephilia

Vorarephilia is a paraphilia involving sexual cannibalism or role-playing about devouring another person or creature, or being devoured.

Wanderlust

Wanderlust is an impulse to be unfaithful or to seek other romantic or sexual partners—a straying heart.

Want

To desire a romantic or, especially, sexual relationship with someone; to lust for them.

Wap

Wap is a vulgar sexual slang term meaning to engage in sexual intercourse. WAP can also stand for “wet-ass pussy,” referring to a vulva or vagina described as highly sexually aroused or lubricated.

Wasbian

A slang noun for a former lesbian who is now heterosexual. The label is sometimes considered derogatory or offensive.

Watersports

Watersports is a kink or fetish-related term used to describe an interest, fantasy, activity, sensation, object, or style of erotic play. Individual interests and boundaries can vary widely.

Wet and messy

An adjective describing something related to wet and messy fetishism.

Wet and messy fetishism

Wet and messy fetishism is a sexual fetish involving slimy substances other than bodily fluids. It can also refer to sexual activity involving those substances.

Wet dream

A wet dream is an erotic dream during sleep that brings the sleeper to orgasm and may involve fluid released from the sex organs. As a verb, it means to have such a dream or to fantasize sexually about someone or something.

Wet play

Wet play is sexual activity involving liquids, including urolagnia or sploshing, a form of wet and messy fetishism.

Wetlook

Wetlook describes the appearance of a person whose body is wet, especially when that appearance is considered attractive or connected with a fetish.

Whoopsy

A slang term for a homosexual man, especially one described as having camp mannerisms.

Whore's bath

“Whore’s bath” is vulgar slang for a quick sponge bath using a wet washcloth or premoistened towelette, often to freshen up between showers or clean up after casual sex.

Widow cleansing

Widow cleansing is a tradition in which a widowed woman is expected to have sexual intercourse as a form of ritual purification.

WIITWD

WIITWD refers to kinky sexual activities, particularly in discussions of BDSM and consensual sexual play.

Womance

A close, non-sexual relationship between women; “womance” can also describe being in that kind of relationship.

Woodwork

In transgender slang, “woodwork” means to become completely stealth as a transgender person, blending into the background like someone who fades into the woodwork.

Woofter

A UK slang term for a gay man.

Woolly woofter

A slang noun referring to a male homosexual; in Australian, New Zealand, and UK usage, it can also describe a foolish or cowardly person.

Woundfuck

Woundfuck is a sexual slang term for sexual intercourse involving penetration of a wound, especially an open wound. It can be used as either a noun or a verb.

Woundfucking

Woundfucking is a slang term for sexual intercourse involving an open wound. It is also the present-participial and gerund form of “woundfuck.”

Xenosexual

Xenosexual is an adjective describing sexual intercourse between different species or sexual attraction to another species, especially an extraterrestrial or alien species.

Yaoi

Yaoi is a Japanese term for fiction or visual media depicting a romantic or sexual relationship between two or more men, especially erotic or pornographic works.

Yaouri

Yaouri is a narrative or visual work featuring a romantic or sexual relationship between two or more non-binary people.

Yellow

In sexual or BDSM contexts, “yellow” is a signal that the speaker needs a temporary break from the current sexual activity.

Yestergay

A slang term for a gay man who is now in a heterosexual relationship.

Yiff

Yiff is informal slang for sexual activity, especially sex involving furries or anthropomorphic animal characters. It can also refer to furry pornography or be used as an expression of sexual appeal or excitement.

Yiffy

Yiffy is a slang adjective describing something related to yiff, sexual intercourse among furries. It can also describe someone as sexually aroused or sexually attractive.

Yobai

Yobai was an ancient Japanese custom in which a young unmarried man secretly entered a young unmarried woman’s home at night for sexual intercourse, sometimes as a step toward marriage.

Youngshit

A derogatory term for a transgender person who began transitioning at a young age.

Youthitude

Youthitude is a fetishized, objectified cultural ideal of youth.

Yuri

Yuri is a genre or label for fiction and other visual or narrative works featuring a romantic or sexual relationship between women.

Yuribait

Yuribait is media that teases a romantic relationship between female characters without explicitly confirming that the relationship exists. It can also refer to producing media in this way.

Yurigem

Yurigem is slang for exceptionally good lesbian erotic or romantic content. It can also refer to a particularly admired lesbian pairing or work featuring one.

Yurislop

A derogatory slang term for lesbian erotic or romantic content considered low quality.

Zest

A derogatory slang term for a flamboyant or effeminate homosexual.

Zigzig

“Zigzig” is US slang for sexual intercourse.

Zooerastia

Zooerastia is the practice of a human engaging in sexual intercourse with an animal.

Zooerasty

Zooerasty is the practice of a human engaging in sexual intercourse with an animal.